Would you be upset with your boyfriend/girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Let's say you just started dating someone and that person is being very passive agreesive towards your best friend of the opposite sex from you (girl/guy besties). This is someone you've known for over 10 years is literally one of your best friends and is married. Your boyfriend/girlfriend is sending this person msgs when they are with you including pics of you, videos of you on dates, pics of them in your house. Msging them telling them their in your bed. This is happening daily and the person your dating and your bestie barely know each other only have met a few times. And your bestie isn't trying to engage in the conversation and its making them very uncomfortable to the point they dont want to be your friend. What would you think of this?

[NathanDavis]

that kind of people don't even make it into my life...

[Asker]

It seems very toxic

[NathanDavis]

why are you still with this person anyway...

[Asker]

I'm the friend

[NathanDavis]

why is your friend still, with this person

[Asker]

Good question

[Guy__]

Tell the guy when in bed to stop using his phone and taking pictures and that it's dumb.

[Asker]

It's her texting me when they are in bed normally he's asleep

[Asker]

She doesn't take the pics in bed the pics are other times, most recently she sent me a video of him doing stuff

[Guy__]

I don't understand.

You are a female and your best friend female sends you weird pics with her boyfriend?

[Asker]

I'm a female my best friend is a guy he recently started seeing someone she is being very weird with me

[Guy__]

Maybe she's making sure that you don't steal him from her?

[Asker]

I'm married and have been for 17 years, it feels passive agreesive to me

[Guy__]

Tell her in a friendly way that if she doesn't stop you'll mute her.

[Asker]

How do I tell her that in a friendly way? Lol we barely know each other

[Guy__]

Something like "I'm happy for you but I got a relationship of my own and this distracts me" ?

[dustybiker]

If he cheats with you he’ll cheat on you. Tell the friend. The guy is dead weight.

[Asker]

This isn't a cheating situation, it's a boy/girl best friend and the new girl he's dating is making the girl best friend super uncomfortable

[dustybiker]

He’s trying.

[Asker]

He's really not

[dustybiker]

Did you read what your wrote?

[dustybiker]

*you

[Asker]

Yes he's my bestie and he's dating a new girl and she's being very passive agreesive towards me and making me super uncomfortable

[dustybiker]

So tell him.

[Asker]

I have I'm trying to decide if his reaction is appropriate or if I should just be done

[dustybiker]

It sounds as if he likes you more than he’s letting on.

[dustybiker]

Oh you’re married? (Seen your other reply) That explains it. The awkwardness is the like and can’t have. Time to step back from him.

[Asker]

Who like and can't have?

[SignedAutographs]

Girls and guys can't be "just friends"

Unless they're gay

[Asker]

I disagree, we've been friends for years and I'm married

[SignedAutographs]

Then why do you need a "friend" of the opposite sex, if you're "married". LMAO

I guarantee you, one of you is either gay, or at least bi

[dustybiker]

Completely untrue.

[Guy__]

SignedAutographs what do you think of unattractive females? Do you treat them all like shit? No, they can be friends with you. That's what a friendzone is.

[Asker]

What does being gay or bi have anything to do with it? We are friends and I met him through my husband.

[Asker]

Has nothing to do with being unattractive either

[Guy__]

I gave the opinion owner an example of his own life. If an unattractive girl hangs around him, does he immediately kick her out?

[SignedAutographs]

@Guy__ You two are hilarious, all three of you even

HILARIOUS