How do I deal with low self esteem?

[Anonymous]

Recently I have really low self esteem and that's making me question if i am an interesting person and if i really deserve love. I have never dated anyone and I really want to ask someone out but it is just that what if i don't deserve him or if he doesn't like me. Would i be able to do it correctly.

[ohshee]

Do you know what's really cool about smart phones and tablets and computers is that if you feel something if you want to understand something or if you want to know something you have the Whole World in Your Hands you can learn anything you can become anything and this is what I don't understand about people if they feel something about themselves and they want to change it get on the internet

Okay now we're going to your question if you have low self-esteem why is that you have to answer that first then what's the best way to bring that out of you send me a message DM me and I'm just going to be 100% honest right now right here if you want to be brought out of that position that situations or that thought
Then DM me let's talk.
Let me show you how to in prove that

But this is what I find about this question that I've answered many times
This is almost like the question about losing weight that I have answered many times

People ask you a question but when they have to do something about it they don't want to

They don't want to put in the work the efforts but it takes to change or to learn something

This is why I say DM me because first of all I know you won't because 99.9% of people did ask this question or the wait question or any question they're just here to hear themselves talk and ask question they're not really ready to do the work
So if you're serious DM me I'm going to scare you a little bit here right now LOL I'm going to be bold I'm going to tell you the honest truth of the way I see it or feel it you can pick and choose what you want to hear and what you don't but it will be something that is lightning will be fun it will be bold it'll be different it will be an experience but it's your choice

[DaySpring]

Hard Truth:

1st) - To answer your question, self esteem is simply self appreciation. If you wish to boost your self esteem then boost your self appreciation through means of growth or solely auto-suggestion even.

2nd) - You have infinite potential inside of you.
You're worthy of everything that is good. Seriously! You Are!
Now that doesn't mean you are in entitle to it; you have to earn it.
Don't let the toughness of life steal your power. The power is all yours.
Don't give your demons your power by letting them live through you and decide what is right or wrong for you.
If you knew the depth of the potential you have inside of you, you would walk around with a smile on your face all day long; and all these negative thoughts about why you can't do something would take up no space in your mind whatsoever.

3rd) Look you might fail. But that's okay. We all fail. But you can get up and try and try and grow and change and develop. You can get all the love you want my dear.
I promise you can.
Inside of you is the making of someone special, bring it to the surface and you'll see and WHOLE world will see.

[DaySpring]

Nothing can make you feel less than unless you let it.

[GeorgaTheBannana]

Impossible because your self esteem is affected by how others treat you, and if everyone treats you with disrespect all the time, you will never feel worthy... And if people have made a choice to not like you now, they probably never willI experience the same thing

[GeorgaTheBannana]

I mean I experience the same thing

[GeorgaTheBannana]

Also guys jus don't ask any girls out any more cos we call them creeps all the time,
So jus cos guys aren't approaching you doesn't mean they're not attracted to you... It jus means they learnt to avoid girls because they don't like being called creeps, it's better to avoid us

[Zeldaismyqueen]

one thing that helped me is to get yourself a nice outfit! Getting myself a nice pair of leather pants boosted my self esteem so much, trust me these work!

[Asker]

I appreciate your help but i don't think the way I dress affects my self esteem.

[Zeldaismyqueen]

What if you just tried it once! Seriously how you present yourself on the outside can influence your esteem on the inside. Do you have some clothes like this?

[Adam1978]

Stop thinking along those tracks. No one deserves anyone period. You can only influence who you want to love and how you treat them. If you treat them right the might return the favor, but there is never ever a requirement to do so. So focus on yourself and your actions. And let them decide theirs.

[IsoUser]

I honestly think that your low self esteem Issues are unfortunate and unfounded, You seriously are a nice girl you just need a chance, any guy or girl would be lucky to have you Seriously

[Asker]

Thanks for saying such kind words even though you don't personally know me.

[IsoUser]

You're very welcome and deserving

[Paul09]

Welcome to the world of men. Where we have to do all the asking. Then get rejected, but still try, until we are fed up. This world is so upside down. Try and ask someone out. You'll experience what we do.

[EdwinLivingstonn]

Find the reason and work on it.
Do things to improve your skills, health, body, character and knowledge

[OddBeMe]

It could be a chemical imbalance in your brain causing depression. If it’s chronic, ie, long lasting, meds could help.

Perhaps you’re just in a rut. Which case exercise, hair cut, mani/pedi could make you feel attractive.

[Twalli]

Ask a guy out, he might say no. You think I guys don't worry the same when they ask a girl out?

[Creampiekarl420]

Suicide attempts after awhile you won’t feel anything at all if you survive them

[Creampiekarl420]

It took me 3.5 and now I’m so dead emotionally I can’t feel self esteem or anything else for that matter

[Creampiekarl420]

Except rage but I smoke and drink a lot to keep that in check

[boggboss]

challange why u feel this way

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Make your self esteem have a low self esteem