I’m finding it hard to end things with my long-distance boyfriend (even if we haven’t met) because I’ve sent him some sexual photos. How do I?

[Anonymous]

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It feels like he has this control over me because he has those pics. How do I get over the feeling?

[Anonymous]

It's too risky to send sexual photos to someone you haven't met in person yet. Even sending it to someone you trust in person is risky. Good thing is there are billions of naked photos online so nobody's probably going to see you or think it's someone who just looks like you

All you can do now is hope it doesn't reach people you know. Next time don't get with someone unless you know them in real life. Also if you get engaged make sure he's ok with your nudes being out there so you look honest it doesn't come back in a bad way

[Asker]

I wasn’t naked in the pics, he told me he deleted them (how true do you think that is?)

[Opinion Owner]

Oh that's even better, you can just see it like a teenage mistake. Not sure how honest he is since you know him better than us but non nudes aren't too big a deal anyways

[Guy13]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Flt9K8vlJGE

Don’t worry about…All your contacts will live your Sexting…both written and visuals. Yeah, go ahead

[Chaopakhi]

Why are you with someone not trustworthy in the first place?

[Asker]

I fully trusted him at first, but he’s just revealed something that’s making me second-guess that. Also, he says I have borderline personality disorder and that I split a lot

[Chaopakhi]

Ok. If you dont think you have borderline personality disorder or ask a profession. If all is well then he is probably manipulating you. Pls be careful & don’t let him get to you.

[Chaopakhi]

Professional *

[TheLastRhodesian]

Keep sending him nude photos, that's what long-distance prostitutes are for, I mean, long-distance girlfriends.

[Asker]

1) They weren’t nude, just provocative

And 2) I’m a virgin

[Anonymous]

Just break up. It's the risk you take for sending nudes.