How come I’m getting ignored?

[Anonymous]

It’s weird, but I started putting myself out there on two online websites, but a lot of girls just don’t bother with me. I get told I’m really attractive, and I always get flirted on by women. But for some reason, I’m just like invisible to them so far. I don’t put anything offensive. I’m nice to everyone. I just put who I am. I have a great career too where I make good money, and I’m at a really good position in life. Like I’ve literally been told before by this girl who knew me, saying that I’m “perfect” to her while I was going through my breakup. So I don’t get it? I’m not saying I deserve it, but I just thought a girl would reach out to me by now….

[Anonymous]

Online websites are full of simps giving women free attention. This means the most average woman will be inundated with hundreds of messages every hour. That is why you are being ignored. Online dating is made for women to inflate their ego and get validation. It's a mugs game and all men should stop using them.

[jennifer_bloom]

Why don’t you reach out?

[SecretsofKB]

That's what I was wondering.

[Asker]

I haven’t had time recently because of work. I’ve been working extra long hours. And I’m traveling. I’m kind of picky, but that’s because I want someone who’s a good match for me….

[jennifer_bloom]

That makes sense, but you can’t blame them.

[Asker]

Oh, forgot to mention, but people always assume I have a girlfriend. Is that why?

[jennifer_bloom]

Maybe that could be it.