My boyfriends not big on physical touch he doesn't even want to hug , is it wrong for me to ask him for one?

[LUPITA00]

[Adam1978]

You shouldn't need to ask for that in a relationship. You should just give one if you want one. If that isn't okay it's not a good relationship for you. If you are a hugger you should date someone that is either a hugger or at least doesn't mind getting hugged.

[NamerOfStars]

No, but you do need to accept that he'll be more reluctant to give it. Being in a relationship means making compromises, but that works both ways.

[midnightmoon05]

Did you ask him why?

what happens when you just go and give him a hug?

[20yearsolder]

You should always ask for whatever you need from a relationship otherwise the relationship isn't going to last

[Spiritofn]

If the relationship is fresh dump him. He's not ready for that commitment. If you've been together for awhile maybe try and change but set a clear boundary that's my regret for my woman...

[CallmeTheKnight]

You shouldn't have to ask, but that's where the problem lies. You're asking because you don't know, which means you didn't find out a lot about him before the relationship happened.

[Fireguy17]

No it isn't.
He may have been raised in a family with out much physical contact, and isn't used to doing it.

[boggboss]

Ofc its not u have to work out a way 4 u to both be happy

[Stevefiveo]

No, it's a boyfriend's job to be physical with you.

[Shamalien]

Is it wrong to ask your SO for a hug? Fuck no lol it’s right! Don’t be passive aggressive about it

[Anonymous]

i wish i could hug my wife it's the one thing i cherish and hold on to and dream about for 4 and a half years now

[WhitneySnow]

Not wrong at all

[Anonymous]

Tell him if no hugs then no sex