My boyfriend doesn't like to touch me?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He was sitting behind me and caressed my back then got into my shirt and caressed my back but suddenly stopped
Why did he stop?
He barely touches me and he caressed me and felt so good but he stopped
I dont understand him
I didn't say anything i didn't know what to say

[IsoUser]

I honestly don't know what to say to be honest. I'm guessing he was to tired after work. But that's not even an excuse I have always loved giving my girl a massage and exploring her body. But then again that's just me 😉😉

[TheMajesticKing777]

You should ask him about that, after all he is your boyfriend

[IsoUser]

You seriously have some very disturbing issues and abnormal behavior

[Sparkie460]

Maybe you didn't comment about how it feels so he thought why bother continuing

[KrakenAttackin]

How about you COMMUNICATE? "Babe don't stop, I really like that"!

[IsoUser]

You're just a jerk don't waste my time 😉😍😍

[KrakenAttackin]

@IsoUser Idiot.

[IsoUser]

Kraken, the more you talk the deeper you dig your hole that you'll never escape from! Lol

[In_Trance]

So he touches you; you sit there like a blob and don't react... and you don't know why he stopped?

[motownplayer2000]

Ask him..

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Well i didn't it would be weird to ask now
I ask men here to get opinions

[Secrets1031]

Let me ask you a question. Are you scared to ask him because you fear you may suspect the reason for the lack of touching, or are you not comfortable enough with him to ask. If it bothers you, YOU need to tell him, not get anxiety ridden over what others may or may not suspect. Don't let the fear keep you from asking him anything, be confident and honest, get your answers if you can't then set new standards for yourself love 😘

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

@Secrets1031 im sad

[motownplayer2000]

It may be weird. And scary. But it’s a question you need an answer too to move forward with your relationship

[Secrets1031]

Don't be sad, be confident ! Let's say the best case scenario you get to express yourself, and he can work on it, right, maybe he didn't realize how much you miss the intimacy, and being confident staying confident is always a good thing and so attractive ! Now we do need to face the worst case scenario, if he tells you, what you fear, by staying confident, you get some kind of control of the situation, it is still attractive, but you get an answer, and to be sad over someone that did not value is nothing to be sad about, but a gain for you. Because I'm in that situation, you've learned how to have the courage and stand up for yourself, to value yourself, but also to not be taken granted for. Now for some harsh love, but woman to woman love 😘.
You are not second place, you must remember that ! You must value yourself enough to not put up with any mistreatment that you see fit.

[Secrets1031]

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You are not second place, you must remember that ! You must value yourself enough to not put up with any mistreatment that you see fit. You are strong, a man that cannot see you at your worst or finest and believes he can manipulate you, have you scared to ask him a question, or to make you believe that even for a moment he can disrespect you, is not the man for you. Really evaluate your relationship and be honest with yourselves. Stay confident, and be honest. It's not you who should be asking " why doesn't he touch me anymore" but " why am I settling for this type of treatment" , " why am I nervous to ask him a simple question" , or " what's keeping me with him ". You have memories and good times, but would you want to spend the rest of your life asking strangers for advice to ease your own conscience or spend the rest of your life knowing your man would do everything he can possibly do to make it known that you'll never have the need to ever question him or feel unworthy.
Much love to you sweetheart, don't over work yourself, keep your chin up and think about the younger you and the visions she had of the man she dreamed of and the feelings of being safe in his arms !! Be confident you must do it for you first, no one else will treat as such

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

@Secrets1031 thabks very good advice
Im afraid he simply doesn't care about me and has me just in case... I dunno
I said i really wanna go to the pool and he said there is no rush, the pool won't be going anywhere

[Secrets1031]

If you're already scared he doesn't care about you, why wait for him too if he isn't. Why question yourself? You're not happy, you want to go to the pool and he dismissed it. You should have put your bathing suit on grab a bit cup and fill it with your favorite drink, and talked to someone there, make a new friend. That's not to make him jealous, but to prove you don't need him to have a good time ! You said " I am simply afraid he doesn't care about me ". And you already fear to be #2 ? No ma'am ! Why must you torment yourself this way sweetheart? You need to value yourself!!! Truly value yourself. For a moment pretend your someone else knowing the things going on in your relationship.. better yet, tell the younger you, when you're pretend boyfriend did something you did like. Talk to her and listen to her, what would she do? She is you and she is a prize for only best man, and she still has all of that confidence and pizzazz. She is you, you are in charge of your happiness, you set the stage for yourself, present yourself I'm the manner you deserve. Don't be scared, there is sooo many different types of guys and sooo many ways a better man would show you his appreciation for you simply being the most purest version of yourself love !! You need to make the decision though, not him.

[Secrets1031]

You've got this !!! Be proud of yourself for recognizing that what he offers you isn't making you happy, and the fact that your asking these questions holds so much weight, that's you've been holding for too long, be proud not sad, be confident, not a " just in case " girl. You're a woman not a girl !!! Get what you want set standards, you don't like the game change it or make new rules, but do for you !!!

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

@Secrets1031 i was a prize for him but now he doesn't care

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

@Secrets1031 he was in pain for his surgery
I stayed at his place 2 days caring about him, buying him food, cleaning dishes and taking his trash out
He wasn't able to go out, at least what he said and what i saw
His jaw surgery made lots of pain
After work id shop for him go to his place we watch movies together and eat, ghen go to sleep
Then i go to work ahain and he stsyed at home in pay
Our boss knew he is in pain and not coming to work
He said thanks a lot for everything
I answered :Im just doing what a proper girlfriend is does

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

@Secrets1031 when i had period pain he caressed my tummy, he went out of his way in the office (we work together) and found me and caressed me to cslm my pain... then he pinched my butt

[Secrets1031]

Awe very kind things to say and memories to look back at ! But the past is to be remembered, not to relive. What's going on is about YOU NOW, TODAY love, not then. This is about how you feel, your happiness, your trust, and lack of. There's a reason you haven't asked him, so find the time with him to talk, you will know instinctively what to do next ! Good luck to sweet heart

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

@Secrets1031 he is very sick and im tired of it
Also has drug addiction problem
Every time i mention a concert or a festival he gets excite about all the drugs he wants to take there
I said i won't even mention it again because every time i do he mentiosn drugs he will take
Im getting tired

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

@Secrets1031 can i ask you my questions about my relationship with him?

[Secrets1031]

I know that situation all too well sweetheart! Ask me anything, but why don't you message me

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

@Secrets1031 i can't, i followed you tho