My boyfriend doesn't touch me is this normal?

[calikitty]

So any time we wind up having sex I go down on him and When he's ready to go he expects me to just come up and have At it He told me that he is not used to touching anybody because his ex Would reject him every time And I've tried my best to be understanding of that But now it's been almost a year That we've been together and he still doesn't even run his hands down my back Much less kiss me or anything else during Am I reading way too much into this and need to continue being patient or is he just not into me but won't say by the way I did accuse my ex Every but never filed charges because we were married so The boyfriend doesn't believe me about the Rape and I can't confirm it with my husband because he passed away But I think my boyfriend Is hesitant that I would ever say that about him

[genericname85]

it is not generally normal but given his history very understandable. i think you should particularly work on that together. i don't think "just patience" will do here. i think you'll actively have to work together to sort that out.

[Misterwolf]

This definitely isn't normal. You're right to question it, so don't doubt your instincts. Don't be patient, sounds like you've been patient already.

[Anonymous]

Oh god, I’m out of breath... why would you write all of that without punctuation...

[calikitty]

I blame talk to text ha

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhh. Alright.
To answer your question - no, it’s not normal. and it’s clearly bothering you. Why don’t you tell him all of that and suggest to visit a therapist?

[Wewladdy]

The problem here is fornication