I've dated nice/nerdy guys and it was terrible compared to dating bad boys why?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

Nerdy guys are predictable bad boys are spontaneous and little bit rough around the edges there's an excitement there there is an edge there that you're at a fine line of which direction you're going to be going how you're going to be treated there is a level of excitement with bad boys nerdy guys are predictable with bad boys are unpredictable it's something new each and every day

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because you're a jerk.
Either you like jerks because they are relatable.
Or you like jerks because they make you look better by comparison.
Or you like jerks because you want to control them.
Or you are stereotyping people based on a few experiences.
Or several other sub variants.
Either way it makes you a jerk.

[whirled_up_girl]

Everyone’s experience is going to be different, many of my female colleagues are married to nice and/or nerdy guys and they are plenty happy and satisfied.

[Jamie05rhs]

Probably because you shut them down and didn't allow them to be themselves. "Nice guys" really need to be encouraged to come out of their shell; otherwise they won't do it.

But I understand how this can be really confusing for girls; because it's the exact opposite of how you're supposed to handle a bad boy. Bad boys are very aggressive, and they will push all of your boundaries, so you have to keep pushing them back.

[baseballnerd24]

Because women are naturally hardwired to like bad boys. For example I always find romantic movies to be kind of ironic in a sense that girls will say that they want the main guy in a Nicholas Sparks movie or book but would end up friend zoning the fuck out of him if he ever did come into her life.

[Slartybartfast]

What don't you just ask the nice guy to beat you up and cheat on you till you have a collection of STDs and an abortion? Seems to be the new normal these days.

[ChrisWhiskeys2]

You probably needed a nerdy looking bad boy like me.
Best of both worlds. LoL!

[Shy_Steve]

You probably just find it Boring, Which is understandable but your just going to be more at risk of something Bad Happening so it's up to you odviously.

[ElvenMr]

What was terrible about them? Their personality, their looks? The way they made you feel? Something else?
Tell us something more, otherwise it's hard to say something helpful.

[Anonymous]

You were dating what you don't find attractive, what did you expect? Most women aren't interested in nice guys so no point forcing it.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nice guys are less honest and driven in general. You miss the passion in bad guys

[linka_pat307]

Are u a bad guy type to date

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m just a guy. Yes I can be bad at times as no one is perfect

[linka_pat307]

Yap
It's true

[Anonymous]

I know, right? ... I thought I like shy and quirky girls but bold girls who were a little mean are sooo much more appealing

[Anonymous]

Because girls just want hot sex with players, forget about having a long term relationship, if you like bad boys. The nice guys can see you just want a player.

[Luckycharms12]

Maybe want someone in middle can be wild but is sensible too when they need to be

[WhiteBoyChill]

Because you care more about excitement than loyalty

[FilmGuy93]

Less exciting, maybe?

[Intothevoid666]

Because nice guys suck at sex

[Anonymous]

You haven't fully matured yet.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Bad guys are gem ✌️

[Anonymous]

Nerdy guys are bitches

[TheSpaceGnome]

"bitch" = female jerk, most nerds are actually quite nice.

[Hellraiser1984]

You're a frigid b.