Why bad boys date good girls?

[Aygul8000]

Why it happens

Happenwd to me as well

He ws mmeber of a gang selling drugs

• I was taking violin classes my parents both are doctors
• Why good girls are drawn to bad boys

[Oliverlogan263]

There could be a few reasons why some "bad boys" end up dating "good girls":

- Challenge - "Bad boys" can appear risky, dangerous, and exciting, which can present an allure and challenge to a "good girl." It makes them want to try and change or reform the guy.

- Secret thrill - Even though "good girls" seem straight-laced, I think deep down a lot of them still want to feel a little thrill or rebellion now and then. A "bad boy" provides that.

- Want to "fix" them - Some "good girls" think they can change a "bad boy" or bring out his soft side. They see the potential for good in him and want to help him get on the right path.

- Deep down connection - Beyond surface issues, sometimes a "good girl" just clicks with a "bad boy" on an emotional level. She sees the real him underneath it all.

- See beyond labels - Not all "bad boys" are 100% bad, and not all "good girls" are saints. There's often more underneath stereotypes people don't see.

In the end people are complicated - we sometimes want what we think we shouldn't. As long as the guy proves he truly cares for her, I get the appeal of feeling that excitement and intrigue. But it's risky too if he doesn't change his ways.

[Aygul8000]

My boyfriend was flirting for 1 year with me before i accepted it
He said when he wants smth he won't stop until he gets it

[Oliverlogan263]

That's kind of a red flag. Flirting for a whole year without really respecting your boundaries doesn't sound right.

Saying he "won't stop until he gets it" is kind of creepy too, like your feelings don't matter to him. A good boyfriend would make sure you feel comfortable and respected. Not pressure or wear you down over time.

I'd be real careful with a guy like that. He might seem charming now that you're together, but someone who disregards your "no" for so long isn't good at taking "no" seriously. What else might he keep pushing even if you're not okay with it?

Your happiness should matter most in a relationship. If he makes you feel insecure or like your opinions don't count as much as his wants, that relationship won't be healthy long run. You deserve way better than some dude who wears you down until you give in from exhaustion! Stay safe - trust your gut feelings here.

[Aygul8000]

Im happy with him now
He was just too goofhe never was creepy
He was silly with hibsex jokes, also joking about marrying me and all that bs
I never took him serious
He wasn't pushy in a nd harsh way
I know you mean be careful 'cause he could be possesive
But he isn't

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahhh gotcha, that changes things a bit. If he was more goofy and silly with his flirting rather than pushy or creepy, that makes it seem less sketchy. Guys can take joking around too far sometimes without realizing it, so I'm glad he wasn't being disrespectful.

And it's good to hear he isn't possessive or controlling now that you're actually together. Sounds like even though it took a while, he was able to show you his actual good and caring nature once you opened up to dating.

As long as he continues treating you with respect and making you happy, I wouldn't overthink the year of flirting too much. Sometimes guys are just idiots about showing their feelings - doesn't mean they don't feel them deep down, ya know?

I'm glad you've found someone who puts a smile on your face now. Just keep the communication open and trusting your gut, and it sounds like you've got a good thing going. Wish you both the best going forward!

[Lliam]

I don't know. Maybe because good girls are...

Naive, relatively innocent.

Fresh, ripe. Not rough, tough or hardened like "bad" girls.

Haven't had much, if any, sexual experience before, so are not sexually jaded.

Are infatuated, intrigued, and dazzled by the bad boy persona, which strokes his ego.

A "bad boy" may feel like a good girl is higher class. She is a step up. She is a conquest compared to low-class cum dumps.

Sex with a "good girl" is more fun because she experiences it more intensely due to her inexperience. Many things she learns for the first time and is amazed.

[Anonymous]

Maybe good girls date bad dudes. Maybe good girls date bad dudes cause they’ve never really had no real excitement in their life, always being good. So when someone exciting comes around, who lives on the edge they like the feeling, the excitement, the thrill of being bad, getting caught.

[Anonymous]

Most young women that do this have very weak male role models in her life. She never learned what a quality strong male looks like. So she latchedls onto whatever LOOKS strong to her. "Badboys". Look like that on the surface because of thier defiance for authority. And she's to stupid to see it all ends in a dead end.

[DarkWinterNights]

Bad boys date girls in general. They have success with good girls because they’re more naive and the bad boy demeanor is very attractive to them.

[glennos89]

Most woman are more interested in a bad guys... Nobody knows why or understand it
😜😂

[888theGreat]

Because you have doctors that are parents , you are GOOD? Wow , that is what a spoiled little rich girl would say. What is your IQ?

[Aygul8000]

Bigger than yours

[exitseven]

they think it is exciting. It is fun util they get punched in the face.

[Anonymous]

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https://www.youtube.com/embed/lgWnB3xh1Xw

[hugoak]

Because they want to do emotional damage!

[Anonymous]

Most guys will date anyone.

[ShaniaWWE]

Lol not true

[ThrillSeeker01]

Confidence

[trustman34]

Kim bilir

[Aygul8000]

What d you mean

[trustman34]

Where are u from