Why girls prefer dating Toxic guys then nice guys?

[Sameone]

Why aim asking is because i see a lot of nice and good girls they dating Toxic person.
Why 🤔

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Toxic guys (bad boys, assholes, etc) often have some attractive qualities like risk-taking, dominance, charm, physical strength, egos which tends to manifest outwardly like confidence, psychopathy or sociopathy which can manifest like emotional discipline, a wicked sense of humor, playfulness, etc.

For example, what's the outward difference between a Stoic and a stoic (vernacular) and a psychopath? All don't cry very often. All don't get upset easily. All aren't very "emotional" in the dramatic sense of the word. It's difficult to tell outwardly. The difference is that the Stoic cultivates positive thinking inwardly, the stoic (vernacular) represses negative emotions, and the psychopath doesn't feel them in the first place. They can look mostly the same but all but the first tend to be very toxic.

We're primitive creatures programmed over the course of our evolutionary history to instinctively favor traits that optimize our survival. That mostly operates by a very crude and low-resolution gut instinct. Those who don't trait themselves to overcome their gut instincts will tend to select those that just, on a very primitive level, those who look like mates that best optimize their survival instead of ones that actually do that.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

[*] Those who don't [train] themselves to overcome their gut instincts will tend to select those that just, on a very primitive level, [look like] mates that best optimize their survival instead of ones that actually do that.

The problem with a lot of nice guys is that many do genuinely lack those primitive types of traits that attract those operating by their primitive intuitions/gut instincts which tends to be the majority.

The rare exception is the good guy who has those attractive primitive qualities and isn't toxic at the same time. Those guys can be extremely popular; they're just extremely. It's the toughest type of man to be is the manly man who is also kind: the true gentleman, as dominant as he is kind.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

[*] Those guys can be extremely popular; they're just extremely [rare].

[Anonymous]

It's not that women prefer toxic guys. It's that women are not very good decision makers as everything relationship related is filtered through her feelings. Guys are much more logical. We are less likely to let our logic be overwhelmed by our feelings. This is NOT the case with women. This is why pick-up artists and f*** boi's are a thing. Because toxic men know they don't have to be a good man. Just make her think she is. Her feelings will make her want to believe it's true. I've said many times, "women do not choose the best man, they choose the most effective liar". Want to improve you chances with women? Become a really good liar.

[Yamaal]

"No, I wouldn't choose myself, I would choose someone good."🤗

[Sameone]

If you saying that at age 18
That's impressive

[Yamaal]

Yes😃🤗🤗😅

[Yamaal]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

My theory is that it is the disagreeableness that women like. It is the power to stand for what you believe even in the face of opposition. It is a great tool to have when you want to protect someone you care about because you aren't as likely to fall to your knees when someone with a "bigger stick" than yours tells you to.

However, our society has made that the indicator that someone, or at least a man, is toxic. It is really fucking us over. It makes me wonder why society would do such a thing.

[Anonymous]

Only damaged girls go for toxic men. Good women, women worth being with won't put up with it.

[NathanDavis]

not in my case... lol

[Sameone]

Have never see before good girl dating Toxic guy?

[NathanDavis]

not something usually seen in my circles, no...

[laly520]

they didn't learn the lesson yet

[Sameone]

I think they like it. 🤔

[laly520]

therapy is expensive for many after all

[OtterMan68]

they're not boring

[Sameone]

Good point of view (pov)