Guys, Even though You have a Mate, Do you still Look at Pix of Attractive Women or even Other Women?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

Absolutely, Paris. Even though I have artwork on the walls of my home, I still look at other works of art.

Pretty women are a gift to the world. The sight brings joy to my heart. I don't lust after them as if actually wanting to be with them, but they are still inspirational.

My wife totally gets it. She knows how much I like her body, but she understands why the sight of pretty girls is delightful. Sometimes she even nudges me to call attention to something particularly noteworthy like nicely displayed boobs or a gorgeous ass.

We've been walking on the boardwalk at the beach and it's perfectly natural to notice lovely girls in bikinis bouncing and swaying as they rollerskate by on the bike path.

One time we were on a ferry in San Francisco bay. A sailboat passed very nearby. Two young women on the sailboat suddenly lifted their tops to flash the crowd. My wife grabbed my arm and pointed so that I wouldn't miss it. LOL

Last summer, we went to a frozen yogurt shop. In front of us in line was a small group of young people who were probably in their late teens. One girl was wearing a beach cover that only covered the top half of her ass. She must have been wearing a thong because it looked like her round, plump, ample bottom was completely bare. My wife and I were both looking and she knew what I was thinking. I reached out and made a gesture like squeezing that fat, squishy goodness and we both laughed quietly to each other.

There are certain male movie stars that my wife has the hots for. It makes me jealous because she should only look at me. 🤣🤣🤣 I'm totally kidding.

I actually think it's normal and healthy to appreciate things of beauty like landscapes, sunsets, cute animals, flowers, and the human form.

humanearth · Accepted Answer

Guilty as Charged There is someone on GAG I have a internet crush on. I wonder who that is, by the way my wife knows who they are to.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

How can you go though life and not look at the opposite sex? "Looking" doesn't mean "looking and planning how to make our next move on her."

NathanDavis · Answer

I do not look up for them... but if I happen to run across them and they are EVERYWHERE I tend to check them out as quickly as i would do right now being single... and I do not see that as a big deal

but I do refer to celebrities and all those online models that are everywhere on TV and the net... I do not refer to social networks because I don't even have those Paris!

Kaneki05 · Answer

Well obviously. One don't become blind when there in a relationship and if they do become blind that actually speaks to their lack of commitment than anything. To be committed you needed to prove it by finding someone else attractive while keeping self restraint and commitment to the one you've promised it so.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

It depends

If the person I'm with is okay with that then yeah I will I mean I don't expect her to not look at other men however if she expects me to not look at other women then I will expect her to do the same and not look at other men

stormcrow · Answer

Lookin' is a part of life. I do not make a habit of 'gaping' at any women, pix or IRL. I have always looked, very circumspectly, when I was with my mate... I mean, if I didn't want to BE with her, I wouldn''t BE with her... a glance here or there, but I '... dance with the one I brung!'

AviatorTom · Answer

Of course I do, I'm not dead. I've been told by several women it's okay to look. I dated a girl in college who told me, "I'd be upset if you didn't look, because I know what you're getting from me."

MTC29 · Answer

Of course. My SO is 55, and while she looks good for 55, that doesn't mean I won't look at a young woman aged 25.

Likes2drive · Answer

Yeah I still did when I was with someone, it’s pretty normal to do, guys are visual , just because we are with someone doesn’t mean we don’t notice other women, it’s not like we are going to start talking to them though

BoobMan · Answer

C'mon Paris! You know the saying: "we're taken. . . not dead!"

jasco · Answer

I will always look at other women just like my girl will always look at other men. I don't mind that, their are always gonna be better looking people out their

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't have a mate. I really, really want that, though. If a girl told me "stop looking at other girls," I would be thrilled! Because that would mean that she likes me.

Anpu23 · Answer

Paris, both my wife and I enjoy porn. I also make adult video games so... Yes

Anonymous · Answer

tbh, I'm a single pringle. But if I was with someone, I wouldn't be looking at pics of other babes really at all. I'd probably still be watching some youtube videos of them though. When they post things like "try not to laugh" videos. But I'd be watching for the funnies and not to stare at the hunnies.

Mahmoud_Madyan · Answer

If you mean with look taking fast peak to attractive sexy woman my answer will be yes... but if you mean staring or even trying to flirt... my answer will be of course no, because I am not cheater!!

ChiTown33 · Answer

I have no way of verifying this as I'm single and have always been single. But I assume, no.

loveslongnails · Answer

I didn't die or go blind, Paris, just because I have a mate.

anton_dee · Answer

That is human nature Paris. I mean, I'm happy with my girl, but if Zendaya come to me asking for a date, woahhh, I'd be nuts to refuse, innit?

OddBeMe · Answer

Window shopping is fine, Paris! Some couples even watch strippers give them lap dances.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I may or may not do Paris, but IF I do, it is ONLY out of curiosity. Nothing more.

Crankor · Answer

Everyone has their own mindset of why they do. Though I get it's just appreciating a form of beauty, also what the person thinks afterwards makes a difference to me

Anonymous · Answer

Of course. The natural attraction to the opposite sex doesn’t simply stop because you have a partner.

MrJMM · Answer

Here is a difference you kinda need to be specific here for me. Do you mean looking like you're looking to have sex even though you're with someone? Looking to have a nice conversation with someone? Looking at that person sexually? Looking at the person thinking who are you and what's your story? Looking at them and not actually thinking anything at all? Or just you see a person because of peripheral vision?

Slim57 · Answer

Honestly never had the urge to while I'm dating someone

CubaPirate · Answer

Of course I'm only human after all as Rag and Boneman says

exitseven · Answer

I still look. But just for educational purposes.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i think i would if i had someone

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

Yes it's my birth rights...✌️

Massageman · Answer

I may be old,. but there IS still blood moving in my body!!!

Wise4myage · Answer

Oh yes, most definitely.

Waldoe · Answer

you are a diabetic, do you look at sweets?

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