What does it mean when a girl meets you and says it's not a date but clearly shows signs of interest?

[Anonymous]

So I met this girl once when I was out, there was little interaction, but we didn't really get to talk, after that, I saw she followed me on social media so I started talking to her. one thing led to another and decided to meet, in between she wrote me it's not a date, when we met we had a few drinks, a good conversation and we kissed several times, even in a quite passionate way I would say. so what's the catch here? is it fear of relationships or something like that?

[devilish-cutie]

really hard to say, but i think its best to ask if someone is just looking for fun or a relationship

[Asker]

I also don't think it's just pure fun because she also made sure to mention the night we met that we won't be sleeping together tonight which was totally fine by me, but maybe makes the situation more unclear in a way

[devilish-cutie]

as i said, ask her, its best to know you have similar expectations

[In_Trance]

it means you probably haven't been straight with each other so far