How to tell if a girl actually interested in you, or just making idle chatter?

[Anonymous]

How can you tell the difference between someone making friendly chatter, and someone who is actually interested in you?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You can see everything you need to know on their eyes man.
It's how I know when to make a move on a girl, but it's also how I know when to call it quits.
The one thing girls (or really anyone) can't hide is the expression in their eyes. They're called the "windows to the soul" for a reason.

If you don't know what it looks like, look at a picture of a girl you find really attractive, then look at your eyes in the mirror. Then do the same for a girl you don't find attractive. It's a pretty amazing phenomenon

[WanderingLoveWizard]

*in their eyes

[mommymommymommy]

it's more about the physical with her, while girls may say "oh, it's about the personality and all that", it's more about the physical, if she feels comfortable around you, if she touches you, and especially if she tries kissing you (or tries to get you to). The girl that likes me, i mentioned to her i had a surprise for her the other day, and she said "are you gonna try and kiss me, FINALLY". We already knew we liked each other, so it helped but, I had just never gotten up the nerve to try it. The actual surprise was not to kiss her, and i hadn't even thought about it, but, now it was on my mind, too, so I was like, hm, well, why don't we then. And there it was, our first kiss. Wasn't a huge big kiss, just a peck on the lips, but, man, was it one of the greatest nights of my life

[virtualwasp]

I am normally relaxed around guys I don't like struggle around a guy I do. Everyone is different.

[gothbxtch]

it can be hard to tell, but you just have to do your best to read the situation, unfortunately

[gothbxtch]

thank you

[AaronKrieger]

People usually show special interest and just treat the people they're interested in different from others. Everyone just goes about that differently, but just pay attention to that and if she ever finds excuses to talk to you.

Some people just flat out ignore or avoid people they're interested in, but just ignore that type anyway when thinking about it. If someone is too shy to the point they can't talk you, then there's nothing to think about.

[DarkWinterNights]

I’m really bad at reading these types of signals. My default is just assume she’s being friendly.

[Iron_Man]

By consistency of showing up on different dates

[Nikki1989]

Time will give you the answer.

[asphaltrhymes]

I also like "time heals all wounds" and "there's not enough time" lol that Two and a Half Men episode lol 😂😆

[LiamJHayden]

If she hangs around when you have nothing.

[In_Trance]

ask her