Did getting in a relationship differ to how you expected it?

[Anonymous]

For me, I realised being in a relationship is kind of shit. I need my space. When I’m stressed and working I need to be alone.

It’s also so hard to manage a girls feelings. I’m a direct person so I constantly get called mean etc.
Relationships are more hassle than they’re worth. I wonder why I’m in one.

Yes it did for me

No it was just as i imagined it

[PrettyPriya]

Well, I can only speak to my current relationship. It is more than I imagined. Of course, I got lucky this time and found “the one”. We are engaged and will marry at the end of the year.

When we first started dating, like all things, there was some level of uncertainty as to how far it would go. There was a really strong connection and good chemistry. You just never know though.

As we spent more time together, it was apparent this was meant to be. He treats me so well, our personalities match and we love each other. So, I have to say it ended the way I imagined (hoped it would) and more.

[Asker]

My girlfriend doesn’t even get on her knees and give me a blowjob how messed up is that. I ask her to and she won’t

[WonderBell99]

If she is not comfortable with giving you a blowjob, you should not coerce her into it. Respect her wishes. If you cannot, break up with her. Relationships are all about compromises, boundaries and respect.

[Asker]

@WonderBell99 I think I need to breakup

[WonderBell99]

@Asker Okay, by all means, please do so.

[Avicenna]

There's always something unexpected, sometimes it's a nbig deal and sometimes it hasn't been

[Guy13]

Read John in the Bible and see if that softens you up do that you are Gently Direct

[Iron_Man]

Yes it did