Is there a certain timeframe you and your partner should go without sex?

[gemini2980]

Last time I saw or had intercourse with my guy was 3months ago!! We have made plans that never happened. He has said work, over time death in family busy as excuses! He said just because it's been time doesn't mean doesn't want me or love or like me. A few times there has been some ghosting, ignore calls or text. I understand we all get busy but 3 months seem like way too long. If you miss something or someone you make time was and is my thoughts. Need help.

[ShadowMonarch]

It depends upon the person's libido or his/her sex drive...

[gemini2980]

Well he loves sex

[ShadowMonarch]

I meant about you... if you don't like that much then... you need to do something about it... it's disrespectful

[gemini2980]

True. He just message so often good morning beautiful with a kiss emoji

[gemini2980]

And even as I didn't reply he didn't call or message me anymore since so yea I'm just an option

[ShadowMonarch]

You definitely should move on from this guy...

[gemini2980]

Yes feel sad and used

[ShadowMonarch]

Go out with se friends and have a good time

Talk to someone close and you'll definitely feel relieved

[Changiis07]

SO last time you actually saw him was 3 moths ago?

[gemini2980]

Yes. February

[gemini2980]

😒😔😢

[Changiis07]

Yeah that's not good. I understand we get busy but a death and such should not take 3 months. I'd say have a conversation when you can to see where you two stand. If he can't then maybe he isn't the one. 3 months is like being friends now that's not fair to you.

[gemini2980]

Thank you much. You are right. We had conversation and was supposed to meet it never happened i. just got all the excuses

[Changiis07]

I mean you can only be so patient, if he isn't willing to meet up then I wouldn't bother to even tell him you're done. You just walk away with your head high. It's not fair to you to have you there waiting. I know life throws things at us

[gemini2980]

We have waited on you over 3mths long enough
If you wanted this hot boxxx u would have been stroking in it by now. I will put the toys up. I been wanting a refill of you so long and u must be getting well satisfied since I have been alone without u

[gemini2980]

I sent him. the above yesterday and called no. reply, no. answer or call back. So u right there are a lot. of seconds, minutes, days within 3. mths. I'm obviously not a priority

[gemini2980]

He always says differ. I. dont get him at times. He did his mother like this before she passed a yr ago with covid both his. parents pass same day.

[gemini2980]

He has made time went on a bots trip. to get away went to New Orleans

[gemini2980]

After I called he was on the road headed there ask if i. meet him. there. but they went to strip clubs etc. I didn't bother to go because months I had been trying to see him. but he had time for that and not me. I wish someone can call. him ask. him what is his true feelings

[Changiis07]

Yeah if he took a trip and went to a strip club then he isn't making you a priority at all

[gemini2980]

No he Is not and I think he does it knowing I will. be around when he available like all on his terms

[Changiis07]

Yeah you have to set boundaries with men. They treat you, how you allow them to treat you

[gemini2980]

Exactly

[gemini2980]

He text this morning good morning GEORGOUS with a kiss emoji I didn't even reply

[Changiis07]

Good he has sense your energy

[gemini2980]

Yea seem so but I didn't reply i. wanted to but didn't

[gemini2980]

It still doesn't say he wants to see me it was just a text

[Changiis07]

Good it’s best you leave it like that. Sounds like he is treating you as an option

[gemini2980]

Yea I'm realizing that!! It's sad to do a person that way. Like I'm bait. Keep me around just when he need or may need. Throw bait then if I catch. Dip on me and have excuses. I'm going to give him a taste of his own treatment I'm busy as well