Am I undateable?

[Anonymous]

I'm always told by guys I'm very sweet, mellow, easy going, laid back, down to earth and whatever else. Still I can't seem to find someone who wants a serious relationship with me. Any idea why?

[Birdlegs]

Do you attempt to date and get rejected? What happens to make you think you’re undateable

[MagicCarpet1]

If I was a virgin woman, I could find a husband in 5 minutes. Why can't you?

[TheMajesticKing777]

I wouldn't say undatable, are you being picky?

[Asker]

No, I found at least one guy I would have loved to be in a committed relationship with.

[TheMajesticKing777]

And what happened

[Asker]

We were in a casual relationship for a long time. He told me he was wary of women but it's not my fault. He had everything I ever wanted in a man.

[TheMajesticKing777]

So he left?

[Asker]

I think I inadvertently broke up with him by letting on I wanted more.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Well there it is, you aren't undatable cause you've dated, you just ruined it for yourself, next time don't ruin it lol

[Asker]

The thing is, I don't want to be casual anymore. It's easy to find someone to be just casual with, but I want way more.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Okay so you are picky, you are technically just making it harder for yourself by putting these barriers of what more you want from a person, if you are tired of casual then maybe someday you'll find the royal prince you seem to be seeking for or whatever lol

You said it yourself, it's easy to find casual, so I'm assuming you want something that isn't easy so why are you saying you are undatable when you yourself don't want something easy, the opposite of easy is hard, sounds like the results expected in your situation

[Asker]

That's not being picky. I just want to date with the ultimate goal of having a real relationship and eventually maybe marriage and a family. Meeting up once in a while is not a relationship.

[TheMajesticKing777]

That's not what I had in mind when you said casual relationship, what you stated as a casual relationship is a normal relationship which is what you mentioned, people don't date for anything more than getting serious, or else people would just be hooking up, maybe the people you've dated were just childish where they weren't serious and were just dating just to look cool but most relationships I see plan on getting married and have a family, you can literally ask any relationship the question and their answer would be that their goal is marriage, you never know what relationship will last and if you are looking for someone that you will be certain on the outcome then you will end up alone, dating is just an unpredictable game, you won't know until you get there so if they interest you, go for it

[Asker]

Even if it was just random I would have had more luck.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Test your luck

[KrakenAttackin]

Stop chasing Chad Thundercock.

[Asker]

Never met him

[one1wild00]

I can't find a reason with the limited info