Why am I so undateable?

[Anonymous]

Men never want to date me or get to know me. I’m never the girlfriend. I’m the secret while you parade and show off your dream girl. The side chick. I’m always propositioned with friends with benefits situations. I’m the girl that you date before you meet “the one” and give her all of the things I could one fantasized about having.

The last guy I was involved with told me that I was just a fuck buddy. He said that he wouldn’t never tell a woman that he would actually date to come over and he takes women that he would date out to go do things.

Why am I so undateable/unloveable?

[Caroline91]

You're probably not so undateable. You're just spending your valuable time with the wrong men. Don't agree to let yourself be used that way. Give your time and patience to looking for/waiting for the right situation for what you are looking for. Stop selling yourself short. It doesn't take a lot of men, it just takes the right man.

[midnightmoon05]

You need to work on self respect and self love. All that stuff are on YouTube or books.
how come they get sex so easily?

[DannyUk2017]

You are Sooo Wrong! Is that you don't SET the Boundaries that You need to SET, and soon as you "jump" to first come first served they see you an easy prey, or just a "side chick" as you said! I'm sure there are Many things that YOU are doing wrong, and THEY take ADVANTAGE, of it!

[YevgenyMikhail]

It's because you pick guys that treat you like that. It's what you're attracted to. Unfortunately, you will have to learn to live with it being passed around. It's your sexuality you can change it. Just accept it and hopefully one day you'll get lucky.

[RichA322]

You are NOT unlovable.

You are just ONLY dating guys that are not interested in you and you are (probably) rejecting the guys that WOULD take you as a girlfriend/wife right away.

You have probably raised your standards so high that only Men that are way out of your league or that are bad for you would fit. But those Men don't care about you, they only want what's between your legs, because they know that can always get another chick.

While (probably subconsciously) you are doing the exact same thing to guys that would immediately date you and make you their girlfriend.

So you are only throwing yourself at guys that will never ever take you as girlfriend, because they can do better. They are using you as Mattress. Sorry, if that hurt your feelings but that's the hard reality. You are with the wrong guys.

[PeachyPie93]

Set boundaries and expectations.. If a guy can't step up to what you want don't continue with him in your life and defo do not let him sleep with you.

[SugarSugarplum]

Watch this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QjM81yzWd8&list=LL&index=2

[LiamJHayden]

If they know they can slam and jam, a lot of guys will. Don't allow them to treat you that way.

[noohair]

I am the guy that women like you won't date because? Karma bites Hard.

[spartan55]

You give it up too easy.

[Anonymous]

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[Asker]

I’m glad you find this funny…

[Opinion Owner]

@yevgenymikhail already answered your question. But you won't accept that as the truth. That is while you'll continue to fail and this is why we laugh.