Boyfriend has been very inconsiderate ever since we moved in together?

[Anonymous]

We moved in together last month I’m already cooking his breakfast lunch and dinner, giving him massages, having sex with him wherever he ask even if I’m exhausted , I’m washing his clothes, straitening up his mess he asked me to help him with his skin care routine so now I’m washing his face and bread every other night and I do a few other things he helps me around the house every now and then and the only thing I ask him for was a back massage he always tells me he’s too tired or he’ll do it the next day or he just doesn’t feel like it he’s been very inconsiderate ever since we moved in together what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Who pays the bills? Do you work? Do you share the cost of everything?

However, regardless of the answer to my above questions, you are doing wife duties, as well as living together without commitment or marriage. It's a trap. It sounds like you have not invited God into your life because if you did, you would have been qualifying and assessing his qualities, spirit, personality and intention.

[Vendela]

First of all, stop. Stop doing all of those things for him. I mean, sharing intimacy when both are consenting is ok but the babying has to stop.
Cooking all his meals, doing his laundry, and even his skin care routine? This man needs to grow up. It would be a different story if he actually treated you with respect and reciprocated the TLC that you give him, but unfortunately he doesn't.

[Danny_dan92]

Time to split. If it’s that much of a deal breaker for you

[Anonymous]

Maybe tell him you’re not his maid or his domestic wife, I can’t believe you even do all that for him unless it’s a trade off because he is paying all the bills and only one working

[slatyb]

Move back out.

[Anonymous]

good luck