Is my boyfriend ignoring me?

[Anonymous]

We're in a long distance relationship. It works well, but I noticed he started to ignore me on social media. For example, he uses Instagram to like photos or follow people and never miss it, but he doesn't answers my messages there or do it late. He has notifications and using the app everyday, but also didn't answer a comment that I tagged him. I don't even do these often. Maybe once or twice a week. I don't wait too much attention from him... Why do you people think about that?

by the way, we were having call everyday before. Sometimes for hours, sometimes only to hear each other's voice because we may not have time always... Now he started to call once a week because of his busy schedule. We talk a lot on WhatsApp, but only there.

[Iron_Man]

Yes he is because that’s where he goes to play sexually even though in his mind he’s not doing anything wrong by Just liking
hot women’s photos. And he doesn’t want to get into long talking conversations with you on there and want to feel like he’s been checked up on. He would rather talk to you on the side somewhere else

[Asker]

That hits deep 😂 I never saw him liking hot women's photos, only his friends. He's not that kind of guy

[Iron_Man]

When you said like photos on Instagram I automatically assumed they were women because that’s what most guys do on there and Facebook Liking women’s photos

[Asker]

Sorry for that. I should be clear. He also the same while he's single. Sometimes I feel bad when he likes naked photos of his friends that he just met. But maybe I shouldn't worry this.

[Iron_Man]

His female friends sends him naked photos. And you’re thinking that you should let it go?

[Asker]

Oh no... they post naked sometimes and he likes it

[Iron_Man]

Oh wow This is really something

[Asker]

🥺 i don't like it, but he says those stuff means nothing

[Iron_Man]

What I’m seeing is he can do anything he wants and be a naught guy and you’ll let him off the hook completely like nothing happened

[Iron_Man]

What country are you from?

[Asker]

I don't want to share because I'm not sure if he visits here. We're from different countries

[Iron_Man]

Oh that’s not a problem you can talk to me in private message and he certainly won’t be reading that

[Asker]

I'd like to talk but I can't send messages. My account is new

[Iron_Man]

You can follow me that I can send you a question

[Iron_Man]

I mean a message LOL

[Alyssa11]

This is why I hate long distance relationships.


Listen to me. I’m not trying to scare you. But it may very well be he’s spending time with somebody else. It MAY be. You have to tell him how you feel and how you see it straight up and see his response. If he provides an explanation that makes sense - awesome. If he doesn’t and he doesn’t change his ways, well there’s your answer. He’s spending time with somebody else.

[Alyssa11]

Also if you need to talk to anyone feel free to talk to me! I’ve been through a long distance relationship

[Asker]

We're messaging all day on WhatsApp. Yes, I'd be happy if you text me ❤️ thank you

[Alyssa11]

Any time!! 💕

I think you should call him and let him know straight up how you feel. Even the small things like him not responding to a tag - let him know. Nothing is silly! If he cares he’ll give you an explanation and make some effort. If he’s studying etc he might be stressed

[Asker]

I can't text you because my level. Can you do it?

[Alyssa11]

Yup sure

[Kha0tiic_xo]

If I were you I weld tal to him about it and let him know how he's making you feel and that he's hurting you and say if you don't want to be in this relationship anymore then to be straight up honest and not lead you I on!

Best of luck🌷

[Asker]

Thanks ❤️ He would probably say "Are you stalking me?" :( I want to be in this relationship and never want to lose him. I'm not that confident...

[nocturnalbreed]

If he is giving you less than half of the attention he used to give you during normal days like pre pandemic then you have to talk it out with him

[Anonymous]

Do you really need me to tell you? Looks like he got someone else or he just lost interest already.

[Opinion Owner]

Well you dont wanna see the true ok 👍

[Opinion Owner]

Truth*

[Asker]

I want... I just don't want to give troubles right now, because he needs to study a lot these days. Maybe it's going to be like before after it ends :(