Why do my LGBTQ friends blank me now that I'm engaged to a straight white male instead of dating a girl like my ex?

[Anonymous]

Like I'm still as Bisexual as I ever was except I'm fully committed to being in a relationship with a guy, marraige and having kids until death we do part.

Updates

+1 y

Sure I enjoyed hooking up with women but I found long term relationships with other women to be hard work and women can be very controlling and abusive. I've now a lot of sympathy for what I put my fiancée through now.

[BarbWright]

Most likely they were just friends with you because you ticked the same boxes as them and it was based on politics - instead of valuing you as an individual. It's a major issue with tribalistic ideologies, it has always been a thing and with this generation for whatever reason it is lots of LGBT people grouping together.

I myself have had relationships with women in the past, but it plays no part in my politics. Sexuality should be completely separate, but apparently that's an old fashioned view.

[SignedAutographs]

Isn't that the whole point of being able to marry now, as a gay

That, bi's, now have the "option" to "marry as a straight" or "as a gay". isn't' that what gay rights are all about

THE ABILITY TO DO SOMETHING

[Juxtapose]

They are jealous that you can have the normal life and the freak life at your leisure.

Yes bisexuals are freaks, I am one of them.

[Juxtapose]

"women can be very controlling and abusive. I've now a lot of sympathy for what I put my fiancée through now."

THANK YOU for acknowledging that.

[Anonymous]

Because they are invested in the misery of others. If you are happy they are not.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Because they weren't your friends.

[ArtemisSilver]

Bi erasure is a thing.