Why dont guys take me seriously, I've never dated or been in relationship and i'm 21?

[Anonymous]

I've never even had any guy friends, I've only had negative experiences with guys and I'm slightly scared of men the older I get and scared of having s*x with them.
I am a shy and reserved person but will open up more if I'm comfortable with someone
I wondering if its cause I'm a bigger girl and not that pretty or if my personality is boring.

[lightbulb27]

Hard to say when all we have is a pink mirage and little info. There are guys who are more loving and just want a girlfriend to start. So are you pogoing for the right ones? That said I turned down a lot of girls for various excuses and they were every shape and size. The issue was me. As well you will always get your best results when you are your best physically emotionally and you have dating and relational skills.


It’s not easy you but you have to keep trying learning and growing.

[saintsRow3]

I don’t blame you for being scared of Having sex. A Lot of dudes in todays society lack empathy. And will Blame everyone but themselves. It’s better for you to stay a Virgin. It would suck If You did have sex and The dudes lack of empathy made him wanna go Fast and Hard and you were in pain. Then You might end up with some sex diseases. A lot of those don’t have a cure and If you caught sex diseases then You wouldn’t have the money to pay for the medication to Be able to live with sex disease 🦠 and you’d end up dead 💀.
Plus Wouldn’t It be Great if You lived your whole entire life knowing Your succeeded in Not Being like everyone else.
Lustful and nasty

[TenkRealist]

Maybe talk to a few guys online to get comfy and then to move on guys irl. We can talk if you like. Irdm.

[alex232]

Just got to get out there! If people don’t like you let them be I’m sure you’re an awesome person!

[Guy13]

Maybe the right one will find you

[Asker]

well hopefully doesn't feel like that at the moment

[Anonymous]

they only want sex