How to get a boyfriend?

[justaksing4help]

All my friend have boyfriends and always want to know who I’m talking to when I’m talking to no one. Guys don’t show interest in me. Overall I’m a very confident well rounded person, how do I get a boyfriend?

[kinggeorge007]

Do you have a crush on some guy? If so try making contact with them. Slowly take the conversation to a personal level. Don't rush it. Make the connection slowly. Get his number. Text him. Plan things to do. Do things together. Let the time create the bond. It will happen eventually.

Just one thing, don't let him think you are just a friend. Always drop a flirty hint of two in between conversations. Be consistent. Smile, smile a lot. Laugh at his lame jokes. He will definitely start to think.

If he doesn't take the lead, you can. Ask him to be your date one day.

[wa1t1ngFuture]

If you're not fat, you can definitely get a guy, even if it's not attractive, as long as it's not too bad. but to be honest i don't like fat girl doesn't mean i hate her... some fat women sometimes make me interested if she has a polite and unique nature

[wa1t1ngFuture]

most important thing is unique women even if there are beautiful women and there are unique women but not attractive I will choose unique women

[MagicCarpet1]

You should not get a boyfriend without your Father's permission, go talk to your father about finding a good husband.

[justaksing4help]

I’m 17 I don’t need to be getting married. Just so you know dating doesn’t mean sex it just means I go places with a guy that likes me back. No need to worry about marriage as a teen lmao💀

[Anonymous]

Approach guys you're interested in as well. Don't just wait for them to. At least go up and try to strike up a conversation (shows interest). Also smile if he's staring at you, etc. Again, showing interest.

[Xoirwinkan]

Be feminine.
Be sweet and approachable.
I think if you could get set up by a friend with one of their friends, you could try dating.

[In_Trance]

Be yourself and the right guy will find you at the right time

[justaksing4help]

but none of them even talk to me. I don’t wanna just stay lonely waiting forever

[In_Trance]

That's exactly what's turning them away; your sense of desperation.

[justaksing4help]

Maybe but I don’t know what else im supposed to otherwise I’m been told I look mean and unapproachable. No matter what I do I cannot win in the guy department

[In_Trance]

Course that this point I have to take your word for it because I don't know what you look like. But you know as well as I do it's a lot more than your appearance

[justaksing4help]

Your acting as if I know why I’m unattractive to guys to be completely honest I come across most disinterested if anything to guys in real life. If I knew I would fix it but genuinely no guys take interest in me and I don’t know how to fix that at all.

[In_Trance]

I get that's why you asked the question to begin with and that's exactly why I answered. Sure looks have a lot to do with initial attraction but subconsciously you pick up on another person's energy. To your point, disinterest speaks loud and clear. As I stated earlier desperation also speaks loud and clear. These are two huge turnoffs that never need to be discussed; you can already tell by the other person's energy. If a guy is too desperate you find him creepy.
If he's not interested that's a definite no; why would you want to be with someone who's not interested?

[justaksing4help]

I get your point I really do. Guys tend to make fun of me if I act interested or their friends I don’t know what I’m supposed to do if everything I do sets me up for failure. All of my friends had their boyfriends approach them and then ask them out eventually but I never get approached and when I approach I tend to get made fun of. How can I seem approachable or not be made fun of?

[In_Trance]

Confidence is a big factor. Be confident in yourself.
I signed another response you said you don't know how to start conversations. You definitely do because here we are. Talk about whatever you like to talk about and be open-minded to their responses and opinions. Things will happen. Maybe not the first time but eventually they will.

[justaksing4help]

I don't know I tend to mentally black myself pretty quickly form doing the things I want to do maybe it stems from some type of self confidence thing. Anyways I’ll try that thank you!

[justaksing4help]

Block*

[In_Trance]

Good luck

[Anonymous]

Find a guy with similar interests and ask him if he is single.

[justaksing4help]

I never even find guys enough to figure out whether we share enough interests in the first place. But who knows I guess you never know until you try

[Opinion Owner]

What are your hobbies?

[justaksing4help]

Singing, drawing, painting, reading, sewing, writing, etc

[Opinion Owner]

Are you in choir?

[justaksing4help]

Yes one at school

[Opinion Owner]

Try asking out one of those guys.

[justaksing4help]

None of them talk to me, most of them already to other girls, and how would I start conversation? I don’t know them well enough I ask them out. Sorry if I’m being difficult this so just like the 1 thing I never get

[Opinion Owner]

Talk to them like you talk to other people. Smile a lot and if they smile back ask them if they want to date.

[justaksing4help]

Isn’t that a big assumption that if someone smiles at me they want to date? None of the. What to talk to me either most are pretty mean. And why if he smiles at other girls more?

[Opinion Owner]

It means that he is interested in you.

[justaksing4help]

I don't know maybe I’m just thinking in a more high school perspective because if I were to do that the kids at my school would never let me live it down.

[Opinion Owner]

Aren't you a senior?

[justaksing4help]

To kids my age smiling is just being friendly like most people don’t talk to you with a straight face you know. I asked out of of my best guy friends one time and got rejected even thought he had literally said he was gonna marry me.

[justaksing4help]

Yeah but that does stop rumors around the grade.

[Opinion Owner]

So even if you are made fun of it will end when you graduate and most people will have forgotten about it in short order. Now is the time to take social risks; as you have little to lose and plenty to gain.

[justaksing4help]

I guess your right and I never thought about it that way. I don't know if I can say I’ll just start asking out guys who smile at me lmao but I’ll definitely start talking to more considering I’ll never see most of them ever again. Thank you!

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome

[Wise4myage]

Don't be afraid to approach guys.