libsaretards | 212 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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It would be my preference if she makes more or even vastly more than me. The reasons for this are:
1. She can feel more secure and independent.
2. Police officers (my dream career) do not make a lot of money and we die in higher numbers than most jobs. I want her to be financially secure if and when I die on the job. MOST jobs pay more than law enforcement.
3. No matter how much she makes, this does not stop me from being able to treat her to dates and nice things as long as they are in the realm of what I can afford.
4. In a divorce I am not as likely to have to pay alimony if she wants to leave me. Alimony usually goes to the lower income spouse. NOTE alimony is different than child support.
5. I can be sure she loves me for me and not my wallet.
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kinggeorge007 | 309 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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In fact I don't care, but not eat too less than me. Probably equal or just around the similar category. That makes things easier. People say I'd not a problem when it comes to financials, but just look at the number of posts you see on this site about relationship finances.
The more you are similar in that front, more you are less concerned about it.
My answer to this question will always be the same. I'm not concerned with what she makes. Only what she spends. I'll always have a roof over our heads and a meal on our table. I wouldn't call my lifestyle "spartan" by any means. But material things do not motivate me. The match for me will be a similar type of lady. Or I'm fine to remain single.
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Men don’t care about that. Not in the way women do. If she worked that’s great but men really don’t care much about her Masters, her PhD, etc. If you worked at Pizza Hut I’d be more excited that we could get pizza either free or a very heavily discounted price. My girl stays home, takes care of the dogs and the house. Our kids are all grown up.
here's my thoughts who wouldn't want a significant other that makes hella money, I mean it doesn't matter how much they make I could care less, but if they were able to make hella money I mean he'll yea I'd be happy
I want her to have her own place and be supporting herself on her own, preferably with some sort of professional skill as opposed to just a job. But I don't care what her income is compared to mine.
Partner's income in my opinion should be simillar to one's standards or even better. Better income from us both= more security but also many new opportunities. More money means more travelling to exotic places to try new cuisines learn history socialize with different people and enjoy the most improtant for human beings value which is freedom.
As long as she has a wage and we can 'do it dutch' for dates. I don't need to be in control, or bully her with money or lack there of. I want everything 50/50. Bills included.
I don't care what her income amount is. I just want it to be high enough so that she can buy most of the things she wants without me having to always buy them for her.
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