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The amount of income is not a dealbreaker. The amount of debt is. 😉
Enough to not ask me for money when we are dating.
It would be my preference if she makes more or even vastly more than me. The reasons for this are:
1. She can feel more secure and independent.
2. Police officers (my dream career) do not make a lot of money and we die in higher numbers than most jobs. I want her to be financially secure if and when I die on the job. MOST jobs pay more than law enforcement.
3. No matter how much she makes, this does not stop me from being able to treat her to dates and nice things as long as they are in the realm of what I can afford.
4. In a divorce I am not as likely to have to pay alimony if she wants to leave me. Alimony usually goes to the lower income spouse. NOTE alimony is different than child support.
5. I can be sure she loves me for me and not my wallet.
Partner's income in my opinion should be simillar to one's standards or even better. Better income from us both= more security but also many new opportunities. More money means more travelling to exotic places to try new cuisines learn history socialize with different people and enjoy the most improtant for human beings value which is freedom.
here's my thoughts who wouldn't want a significant other that makes hella money, I mean it doesn't matter how much they make I could care less, but if they were able to make hella money I mean he'll yea I'd be happy
I don't care what her income amount is. I just want it to be high enough so that she can buy most of the things she wants without me having to always buy them for her.
It really would not matter to me. I would not want her to have job where she worked a lot of hours or worked nights and weekends.
Don't care if she's making more or less than me as long as it doesn't turn into 1 person buying everything for the other person it's fine...
Don't care so long as she doesn't use it as a way to be combative or act like she is superior to me if she makes more.
I want her to do her and fight for what she thinks she should be getting paid for her work wether that me 10k/y or 30m/y. It makes no difference.
In fact I don't care, but not eat too less than me. Probably equal or just around the similar category. That makes things easier. People say I'd not a problem when it comes to financials, but just look at the number of posts you see on this site about relationship finances.
The more you are similar in that front, more you are less concerned about it.
My answer to this question will always be the same. I'm not concerned with what she makes. Only what she spends. I'll always have a roof over our heads and a meal on our table. I wouldn't call my lifestyle "spartan" by any means. But material things do not motivate me. The match for me will be a similar type of lady. Or I'm fine to remain single.
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