Guys would u be in a long term relationship with someone who you really don't love and do men really do this?

[Reesi]

[Nawlins34]

No, if we're don't progress to the point of love, I'm not wasting either of our time.

There are guys out there who'll stay for the sex. They will waste your time smiling knowing they have no intention of marrying a woman. it's directly related to their ability to get sex, the easier it is to get, the more likely they will drop that woman.

[Anonymous]

Of course not! Believe me, relationships (even the best ones) still take work. Why would I want to put forth all that effort for someone I didn't love or didn't love me back.
I think what you should understand by now considering your age, is that men can separate the physical and the emotional better than women. A guy doesn't have to love you to want to sleep with you. And knowing how women are, some guys are not above telling a woman what she wants to hear to achieve that objective. It's not necessarily malicious, though I get why women take it that way because it is still manipulative. Just understand in that moment in time the guy is using his head, just the wrong head.

[ChrisWaters]

I wouldn't because relationships are challenging. Sometimes it's only my love for her that keeps me in it. Otherwise it wouldn't last.
Are there guys who stay with women they don't love? Yes, there's definitely cold hearted men and women who just use their partners and then dump them when they find a better option.

[Reesi]

That's not right but people like that will get their karma

[Reesi]

People can be so cold hearted

[ChrisWaters]

Yes, some people are more selfish and inconsiderate than others. It is possible to fall out of love with someone over time, like if you don't get along, or you drift apart.
It's the ones who never really loved their partner and always knew it wasn't going to last who are dangerous. Their spouse is fully committed and invested in the relationship and they have no idea that they're just temporary.

[Reesi]

I'm saying. can u rate my other post?

[ChrisWaters]

I'm not really good at rating people based on one picture.
Some people take an incredible picture, but in person they aren't really that hot. Some other people just look average in their photo, but when you meet them they have something special about them. The whole package of who they are is, their mannerisms, personality and overall appearance can be more attractive than just a headshot.

[Reesi]

Ok but can you at least give ur first impression opinion please

[ChrisWaters]

She's a nice looking person, probably someone I would get along with if I lived next door.
I wouldn't be able to say how attractive she really is without having met her and gotten the whole experience of who she is.

[Reesi]

Do you think she's pretty

[ChrisWaters]

Maybe. Like I said, I don't know your friend.
She looks nice, I'm sure there's potential to be as pretty as she wants.
Do you think she's pretty?

[Reesi]

She's a 7

[Reesi]

Could her potential be in losing weight

[ChrisWaters]

I guess that would depend on her overall bodyweight, and if she's within the healthy recommended weight range for her height.
If a person is obese, then I'm sure losing weight and walking, running, swimming etc. Is going to help her appearance. I always say that people look their best when they're healthy.
They just look well rested and happy, and full of life. I need to get healthier.

[Reesi]

I know u don't rate but can you just say what number you think she is from the picture

[ChrisWaters]

There's too many different kinds of people to lump them all into a 1 to 10 scale.
I think that rating system is a bit flawed and it doesn't account for the really unique, cute, and interesting looking people who can't be easily categorized.
I think you're unique, cute, and interesting looking. You're great. 🙂

[20yearsolder]

I'm sure some men do, I'm not one of those men. Why waste the time

[Reesi]

I think people who do that got to be losers or insecure especially if it's because they need money y put yourself threw stress a agravation

[Anonymous]

"really do this" as in you've heard this, or see it happen? Well, women do also, quite often actually. And the reason (s) can vary. I think it boils down to two main reasons for a lot of people. 1) tired of dating/looking and "settle" 2) many people are afraid to be alone. And/or feel they'll be "judged" for being single.

[Deku2009]

No not long term (those kind of relationships I need to be in love with her), but you also got to remind each other of your love from time to time (make them feel special, understand them , and except them , all3 must be followed on both sides). Unfortunately there are some guys that do that without love (least likely), or lose interest (more likely)

[loveslongnails]

I have no clue if other men do this, but I wouldn't waste my time doing it.

[exitseven]

I would not do this. I have dated girls for longer than I probably wanted to just because it was convenient.

[Hanrej]

Yes we do. Or we get committed during the time she pretends to be somone we could love and then it takes time to realize we're trapped with somone we don't really care for.

[Pudsmucker]

Yes, people get in relationships and they find out later on that they don't love them. Or their personalities clash because they're in differences.

[2021biguy]

I would never do that but some cold hearted people do it because they use other people.

[Luckycharms12]

Some men do It I'm sure

[Luckycharms12]

But hurting yourself and the girl long term. So be honest

[Reesi]

True

[Reesi]

I won't do this

[Slim57]

No that feels horrible, I've been there

[legalboxers]

I do. I try my best...

[dudeinohio]

I would not.

[Emanon25]

I don’t think so

[Reesi]

Why not

[Emanon25]

Why would you live long life with someone you don’t love?

[Reesi]

I wouldn't do that I was just wondering if guys do that

[Emanon25]

Some guys might do if they get benefits and have no life

[Reesi]

That's sad that's not fair to the girl there with