Take this girl for instance she has a lot of likes on all her pics. Even girls with 50-100 likes got guys in their dms like no tomorrow so if I hit one up, why should she even bother with me? An average looking guy? How do I even stand out
If girls are constantly getting flirted with, sent direct messages and etc, how do you avoid being just another guy when shooting your shot?
If you want to get the attention of somebody like that, you would have to be her type. She obviously values looks, attention and validation. You would have to a trophy to her basically. You would need to be impressive looking and improve her status when being seen together. I'm not saying you couldn't talk your way into her heart, but that tactic is basically manipulation as I'm learning. It just leads to a toxic one-sided relationship and it Isn't a good way to find love. Basically if you want hot looking women to really want you, you've got to be hot looking.
1. Read her profile. Really. 2. Find a common interest and comment about it. 3. Don't write anything about how hot or sexy she is. 4. Act like you would really like to have a date instead of a hookup. 5. Develop some confidence in yourself and be assertive but not aggressive as a man.
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Anonymous
(36-45)
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Girls gravitate more to people they have an emotional connection with, so if you have that and can show it naturally you’ll automatically stand out.
Those women you avoid. If they live on social media for likes and validation, trust me, you're not gonna have a chance. Even average at best looking women are getting that attention from horny guys.
Talk to women in person. Smell good, be well groomed, have a decent hair cut or style, and dress nice. Be good at holding a conversation and decide whether you want to take it further with her or not.
Keep this in mind... Approach a woman with the intention of getting to know her, not sleep with or date her.
Not dating girls like that... That is for sure. Go into something not looking for sex... Also, maybe stay way from dating apps. Be genuine and when you are told no leave them alone. When you are told yes then it's a go. And when you are given any other answer leave the ball in their court.
If they are really into you then they will at least do something
I just wait till they express their interest on me... that works for me
some even would approach precisely because of that... because I was the one not to flirt with them... lol
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
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I don't! That's probably a big reason I'm still single. I tell the truth, and if he's willing to lie, and she's not smart enough to see the difference then that's on her. I am amused by how many women choose him, then after a week or 2 dump him and come back to me. Unfortunately for her though she already made her choice. Now she has to live with what could've been. Women only get 1 shot with me. I'm nobody's second choice.
Don't seem too thirsty. Try taking about something you're passionate about, ask what she's passionate about.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Don't flirt with them, it'll driven them crazy IRL if you do that and that makes the want you, to use the old quote 'treat them mean to keep them keen'
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