How do you fend off people who flirt with you when you’re already taken?

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shades777 · Accepted Answer

Its easily pretty easy for a man, since we're usually the ones doing 95% of the approaching. In fact mentioning my girlfriend would only make women more interesting in me since it seems that women want men that already checked the vibe test, in fact the hotter my girlfriend is the more they want me. Some women just want the happiness my girlfriend has, it's different for men, I don't give a rats ass about what another man has, also not interested in taking a already taken woman.

Inquisitive98 · Accepted Answer

Just tell them you are seeing someone. I am sure they will I understand

DaveJord · Answer

Mention you boyfriend in every other sentence.

How was your weekend?

Answer: Great my boyfriend and I had ice-cream together it was great; we really had a great time. We get along so well, and the ice-cream was great.

What do you think about the weather- My boyfriend and were just talking about this... my boyfriend loves it and so do I. he's amazing that way.

You can literally drop your boyfriend into every conversation. 90% of the time they get the hint. For those that don't then you got to file a complaint or just tell them straight up that you are not interest in any type of romantic relationship.

Genie23 · Answer

Usually I do this... And if they get too persistent or bitter because I ignored them, I mention my boyfriend and say my boyfriend wouldn't like if I tell him what you've been doing, lol

Summeroflove · Answer

It just depends. Some people are annoying but if you call them out for flirting they’ll act like they weren’t and try to embarrass you. Other times someone genuinely isn’t.

If someone annoys me to the point where it needs to be addressed you just ask the person to stop. Some people will be sorry and others will just get angry with you. Whatever.

If it’s obvious and she knows I’m taken I’m not as nice. If she just legitimately doesn’t know I’ll just tell her.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

"Hey, sometimes, people misconstrue my comments as flirting, so just to make sure you don't misunderstand, I'm living with my girlfriend, we are exclusive and happy, and planning to get married." This way, I am not accusing them of flirting, and I get the message out there.

catiecatie · Answer

So I’m not going to lie but I really like this guy. He has never mentioned a girlfriend and I don’t see a wedding ring on his finger. If I know the individual is taken then I won’t do anything (even though I like them). But if I don’t know then I would probably shoot my shot. I am going to ask out this guy for drinks. Something simple just in case he does have a girlfriend. I will say “Hey you’ve helped me so much, I feel like I owe you a drink.” And if he says that’s nice but I will have to refuse or something like that then I understand. At least I tried. Hopefully it works out though! Fingers crossed!

Anonymous · Answer

Lol one time some fat guy wanted me to cheat on my man with him. My hot muscle badass man. I never even turned to look at this guy.

this guy thought that me being nice to him = I’m in love with him
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

So no, saying you have a man doesn’t always work.

Anemone978 · Answer

When I am taken I tell them I am but most guys don't give a s*** because they don't mind fucking someone else's girl because they don't need to put in as much effort.. so usually they have to be blocked..

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I show them your picture and say  "sugar, if you want my attention, you gotta top that, and you aren't even close."

DizzyDesii · Answer

Not well. I have to try my best not to flirt back because its almost always my main type who enters the picture once im taken. So i just distance myself

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't... I just let the know I appreciate the gesture, lol

Haha456 · Answer

from my experience, telling them about a boyfriend WILL NOT WORK. Tell them you are married. A lot of people see you "single" until you married.

DaddyDiablo · Answer

If I had that I'd be doing that as many times as it's happened or come to but from recent girls not so much really or too many tbh but it's kind of funny rejecting girls who find any type of way towards you

aoihewgf · Answer

I ask them how old they are first to make sure we following the law and then I tell em come over

Finchie40 · Answer

I just tell them I am flattered but sorry I am already taken if I am in a relationship , no reason to be rude

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I showed them my then fiance’s pic and they knew they stood no chance with me.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I just ignore them and most will eventually go away.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

"I'm currently off-market, though the sentiment is appreciated."

RavVid · Answer

Just not respond to it and maybe mention my girlfriend.

AdithyaR · Answer

I'd act normal until they start flirting If they flirt I will respectfully ask them to stay the hell away or walk away myself.

TooHot2Care · Answer

Silence.  If they persist, me and my girl at the time take a pic with us both dressed hot flipping the camera off.

TrillXHippy · Answer

Well being single I don’t have that problem so if I wasn’t single I doubt that it would change. I don’t want it change cause then it will be a problem

Sparkie460 · Answer

Just say " I'm not interested, I'm taken ". Then walk away

Reorx · Answer

I flirt lightly back, if it's taken seriously I tell them;"I'm flatter but not interested. I'm already taken."

msc545 · Answer

I tell them about my SO or introduce them to her if I actually have an SO.

nawtee_me · Answer

Just take the compliment and let them know you appreciate it, but you are taken.

serious_miss419 · Answer

I get this lots and I’m single and dislike when any man flirts with me. I give off high vibes that make him question if I’m safe or not and they always back off.

8393udjejdj · Answer

Flirt back in an extremely uncomfortable and kinky way

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Invite them over for sex and, once they get naked, set their pubes on fire.

mommymommymommy · Answer

Define "flirting"

blondfrog · Answer

Tell them your gay lol

Sophie_me_like · Answer

They can just be friendly

Smashingdoozy · Answer

"appreciate the compliment but I am happily take "

Pink2000 · Answer

I don’t respond.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Don’t acknowledge their advances.

sheikalana · Answer

Ignore. Ignore. Ignore. Or dry responses.

es20490446e · Answer

You know, I will just let them know.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I don't see how that would be a problem.

Degenerate · Answer

You just ignore it...

Fuentes · Answer

I don't say anything sexual lol

Guardian45 · Answer

Probably, just politely say I'm with someone.

Roula2000 · Answer

I say thank you but I got someone at home.

riverrat3 · Answer

Have fun, but not be serious

RosyBeak100 · Answer

Are you for real? You just answered your own question

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