Is there something wrong with me, I feel undesirable and unwanted by guys?

[user564]

I have talked to a few guys on dating app but they lead no where and just fades. The longest I've talked to a guy was 5 months but that lead no where and he made no effort. Dating apps are really all i have as i dont really get a chance to meet guys in real life. I don't really get approach by guys or compliments when out but my friends do. No one seems to take any interests in me or take me seriously. i never even been on a date and feel unwanted and undesirable. I don't know if i am doing something wrong.

[amandat94132]

Maybe they are not for you

Don't blame yourself , everyone goes through this , not you it's them

Give yourself time , don't blame yourself , maybe you are lucky
because some men might be wrong for you

Take care of yourself :)

[DavidRaul]

This like me meeting my mirror self. Dating apps are a disappointment for me from the starting. Yes, the conversation goes no where. Its me everytime putting the effort. We will just find the right person. Just be patient. And you don't need to worry about anything

[jshm2]

Seems you are a boring person and have low self-esteem.

Dating apps are for the opposite sort of people. Also, if you're just talking with a person for a week and no date or hookup - it's both your times you're wasting.

[user564]

@jshm2 what makes me seem boring and how do I become more interesting.

[Liz95]

Let me start by saying there is absolutely nothing wrong with you hun, it takes time to meet the on
right person…trust me i would know, I did not get into an actual relationship till I was 22, It’ll come to you when you least expect it

[notwoke]

what if she's actually an ax murderer or has terrible body odor? Participation trophy's are not helpful, they're destructive

[Liz95]

@notwoke okkkkk…someone should never feel undesirable cause there’s no validation from the opposite sex

[notwoke]

they should ignore the real situation?