Guys always tell me im attractive but they dont have enough interest to ask me out what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[stratford]

A few ideas:
- Make the first move
- Make it very obvious you are into him (touch his arm or leg casually)
- Dress slightly seductively
- Make flirty comments or send flirty pictures
Some guys might be thinking you are out of their league, or that you've already decided they are just a friend, so you might need to prove them otherwise.
You'll have to put yourself out there (take an emotional risk) if you want to get a date - good luck!

[Asker]

im too scared to even add him on facebook

[stratford]

When they tell you that you're attractive, what happens next?

[ImNoOne111]

I'm sorry but if guys find you attractive and no one asks you out, it's either because there is not enough males around to be attracted to you (fix: socalise more) or you have a bad negative personality trait that turns people away (fix: see what it is and fix it)

[Asker]

I don't think its my personality a lot of people say how am I single and seem surprised

[ImNoOne111]

Then maybe you are like a girl I knew, I would say she had a cute personality, average looks but something was wrong, literally all my friends wanted to date her but she was either consciously or unconsciously dropping "no"s everywhere so non of them even asked her

[OldWorldOrder]

Women in the modern West are simply untrustworthy. The entire legal structure is framed around men being villains and women being victims with no agency or culpability.

So there's nothing you can do. I would say, "give up your modern legal privileges," but that's not really feasible. Maybe move to Iran or Syria or something? That's about your only option. Pick a culture that hasn't been ruined yet by 1st world "values" and assimilate into it.

[wa1t1ngFuture]

He might think you don't like him... or they are lazy they may still have a lot of problems/busy (work or stress or something else) or they already like other women or you may not be him type...

[Asker]

lots of reasons for sure i may need to pluck up courage to ask this one guy i met through a friend. he seemed shy but he shared his chips with me first out of everyone and i didn't know him

[MCheetah]

You should make the first move and stop blaming men for them not pursuing you, when they likely wouldn't even think you're single or into them.

[Asker]

My female friends always say that the guy has to do it

[MCheetah]

Why? That's retarded.

[boggboss]

Show more intrest in them

[Asker]

my friends say that if he doesn't ask me out he isn't into you

[boggboss]

Then there ya go I guess

[Ms_Facesitter]

Ask them out.

[Asker]

im so scared to add this guy first on facebook i met lol

[Asker]

id hate it if he rejected it omg

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yes. That goes for guys too. It's scary to ask someone out who they like. If you're scared, and they're scared. Nothing will ever happen. So make a change.

[Asker]

It's been almost 2 weeks and still haven't added him to start talking with him lol

[Asker]

So scared

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yes. 2 weeks of... Nothingness. Because you both didn't do something. Let that sit with you for a moment. If you don't increase your chances, it'll become 3 weeks...4 weeks...