I'm 20 since I'm still young do you think I should date multiple people at the same time and not settle down?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

This is only a choice for you to make nobody else you want to experience things you want to understand things you want to grow as a person I think that's the reason why you're asking this question you want to feel what it feels like what Everything feels like two different experiences and there's nothing wrong with that did I would do one at a time just so there's not a problem I understand where you're coming from and I don't think there's anything wrong with that but for some reason I feel right now you would be holding yourself back if you did it with two or three guys all at the same time I got to like that but for you as a person and growing and trying to get what you're trying to get out of it I think you should slow down just a little bit or do what you want you know exactly what you want and what you're trying to get out of it so you have to do what's right for you

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

Not settle down is up to you and perfectly normal.

Dating many people is also up to you but definitely makes you a shitty person.

You can have hookups or short term relationships but more than one at a time is just a shitty thing to do.

That being said, keep in mind that there is no glory in it. Once you're 30 and looking for a relationship if your body count is astronomical the vast majority of guys will not pursue a relationship with you but instead just try to add to that number and leave.

You now have the power to decide what your history will be a decade from now, make sure you consider more than immediate pleasure before doing anything.

IveGotNoName · Accepted Answer

Well ummmmm certainly doesn't interest me, but if you want to I guess go for it?

eddym · Answer

When I was 20, I wasn't dating anyone. But over the years I learned one thing: You shouldn't date multiple people. In fact, you should NEVER be in a relationship with two or more people at the same time.
I have seen people who do it for fun and they don't seem to have any problem as long as they are not caught. If you are dating multiple people, you won't be able to settle for anyone and you might keep doing this forever.
You need to learn the art of loving. And when it comes to love, you can't love two or people at the same time.
Dating is not as simple as it seems. Avoid rush!

Anonymous · Answer

I think you should get settled down then date. The distraction from school years through collage and landing a career is just in the way.
I have run across scores of women I thought would be wonderful to team up with. So "the one that got away" can be a carrot on a stick and you might wind up where you didn't plan if you do it the other way around.

IsoUser · Answer

I don't think that dating multiple people at the same time is a smart thing to do given infectious diseases out there lol. Now with that being said I do agree that unless you're head over heels in love being with different guys is not a bad idea mainly because you quite literally never know who may steal your heart. In any event just my humble opinion.

slatyb · Answer

Yes, you definitely should. The song got it right.

Chris_7565 · Answer

It's your life, just remember that every choice you make takes you down one path or another. Where you end up is a result of your decisions. Hopefully you get to reach your goals whatever they are.

Avicenna · Answer

I wouldn’t recommend that. You’d get bored and ruin any chance at having a good relationship with someone compatible with you.

boxxie2002 · Answer

No; way too complicated and unfair on the other people.
It could work if you are open and honest that you wish to bring other people into the relationship.

You would need to find some pretty flexible and understanding people though

jahaims · Answer

You should only date one person at a time. You can't have multiple people if you are going to put what is needed into having a successful relationship.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Sure... as long as you aren't decieving anyone or leading them on, it should be fine.

Iron_Man · Answer

As a man that’s gonna cost me a lot of money as a woman it’s totally free

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Why ask people do what you want to do its your life

Sam_25 · Answer

I started fucking girls when I was 14..

TheFlak38 · Answer

yes. whore yourself out. be a woman of your time

driven159 · Answer

that is up to you there is no timetable for that

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Why would you want to date multiple people

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

20 isn't that young lol.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

That’s the fastest path to disaster

clemdenim · Answer

What ever you are comfortable with

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nope.

Joker_ · Answer

you're old

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