A women on this site is saying that women are just as confident as men and approach men just as much as men do. Is she right?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I agree! I know some women can be too shy or have the stigma ingrained that men should always approach first, but a lot of us have grown away from that thought process and have no problem approaching first. I couldn’t say that with factuality if I didn’t witness it first hand.

[Asker]

But do you think statistically it is equal

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sure it would require some digging to say with accuracy, but I could envision it being statistically correct. Especially in this day and age.

[Opinion Owner]

**equal/correct

[ChrisMaster69]

Well been out tonight and saw it happen and it’s nothing new.

it was going on when I was at school.

admittedly a lot depends on the culture of the country and if women feel happy approaching guys, some places the guys tend to be Arseholes and girls will not bother.

here it’s really common.

[zagor]

Maybe she is. That doesn't hold for all women, though a lot of them do go for what they want.

[jennifer_bloom]

I might approach if I think it’s necessary but still would be super discrete and avoidant about it.

[NathanDavis]

in my case, yes... but it might not go the same for everyone else

[Asker]

Do you think it is equal?

[NathanDavis]

well... out of the six girls I've "been with"

five of them approached me first... one time I was the one to approach

it doesn't sound equal, but is just personal experience... it does not reflect the general situation

[fonduegirl]

Individual differences apply

[Slim57]

Women do NOT approach as much as men whatsoever