Is this statement true about UNDERSTANDING WOMEN?

Question

Understanding women is difficult. It's like trying to figure out what color the letter 7 smells like. Do you agree or disagree?

HiveBee · Accepted Answer

Because society has taught men that women are repulsed by any man exhibiting feminine traits, men are incapable of listening to women.

Because a man's #1 goal in life is to secure access to sec with women, we are taught since a young age how to act.

How is this taught? By calling eachother sissies or faggots. To imply femininity or homosexuality for certain actions.

Which actions are labeled negatively? Anything that would say "females are not attracted to this."

What are females attracted to and not attracted to? It is impossible to say. The system that is informing us of what women like or don't like is entirely made up by men.

We believe that it is based on observation. It's obvious to many men what women want. The top 1% man.

Thus this is why the behavior control is imposed on us so urgently. It's almost like all men want to help all other men become able to aquire women.

We police wachother's behavior and make sure everyone is "acting right" in accordance to what is attractive to a woman and what is not.

Men who are trapped in this mental framework cannot ever understand women because you're trapped in the patriarchal matrix.

And women see it clear as day. You look immature and stupid. Everyone can see that your covering yourself up like the genitals of Adam and Eve. You're covering your real self with the self that is conditioned by the patriarchy and toxic masculinity to believe you have to be a "real man" in order to secure sex with a woman.

And that "real man" shit is pathetic and everyone who is not trapped can see right through it.

And women see right through when you're faking it and you have a complex about your masculinity.

It's weak.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. Women seem hard to understand because they are influenced so heavily by emotion. I've said many times on here, "all women have a little bit of crazy in them". But the best women know that and they do thier best to own up to it. They communicate the best way they know how. But unfortunately there are also women that take no responsibility for thier "crazy". These women do not communicate. They expect you to figure it out as though you could read her mind. And anything she "feels" she considers rationale and acceptable and will try to manipulate reality to make it fit her feelings.

I can't stress enough that when you meet a woman and she owns up to her craziness. That's probably the clearest sign you have a keeper that you can communicate with.

A_Bell · Accepted Answer

I disagree. Most of our behavior is a combination of unreasonable demands and unwillingness to take responsibility. Apply that decoder and you've cracked the enigma machine.

Men are hopeless complicated because they are the mystery. They've been ignored and taken for granted for so long that women and society have made them mythological creatures.

As a young girl, I grew up around a lot of girls and women and almost no males. It wasn't till a mixed high school (9th grade on) did I have frequent contact, so I never had them to blame my problems on. (My dad is also awesome.)

I just saw how petty my much older sisters were to each other and how crappy my oldest sister is to her husband. I wish more women had my perspective and work on improving us, instead of blaming every man as if he is Ted Bundy with a van full of roofies.

Sorry for the vent. :)

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I would say some woman are difficult to understand because they behave in ways that are not understandable. If a woman is honest and compassionate and protective and caring, she is very easy to understand. But if a woman is self serving and cares only for money and pleasure, she is hard to understand, because there is nothing to understand. Of course some woman have good intentions but have so much hidden trauma that people on the outside viewing them, cannot understand their behaviour because they do not know what she has been through in her life.

juliammm · Answer

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Jaximus-Lion · Answer

I would say the women around me in my life , so far , they are sane 🤣. But i have met very very few women (thank god) that were difficult to communicate with (like my brother's ex) . So at some point this statement work on very few , in my experience but mostly no. Disagree

LazerBean · Answer

It just takes psychology and consideration, as with everyone. My husband has it down solid. I've learned a lot about understanding and handling people from him, but I still end up consulting him when I need to figure out the best way to communicate (typically constructive criticism/solutions) with specific people in a way that they will best take and understand it.

stepyo99 · Answer

Understanding women is easy. The problem men have is when they listen to women as if they know and understand what they want instead of treating them like the emotional, hormonal children that they are and just telling them what's best for them.

If you aren't setting the expectations, boundaries, and structure of the relationship then you can expect a headache because women aren't cut out to lead in that capacity.

Pacquet · Answer

I think when it comes to certain things women can be very difficult to understand but that’s not to say men can’t be either. I think men and women have different types of logic that compliment each other and I think the key to understanding the other is learning  how  the other thinks rather than  what .

Apple1996 · Answer

Disagree... it isn't just women. Understanding people (both women and men) can be difficult. Everyone is very different so it takes time to learn and understand who someone is.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I think men tend to make things more difficult than they have to be. Women aren't that difficult to understand. Just be honest, listen to what they have to say and treat them with respect, essentially everything we expect from them.

EmmaMary · Answer

@aviatortom  In all honesty, don't you think that this could just as easily apply to both sexes.

SaoirseS · Answer

Just ask for the Quick Start instructions, it has everything you need to know on a single page. With pictures even 😉

Jazzy54 · Answer

Disagree. Personally, I was raised to be clear and straightforward in both words and actions. I don’t blame things on my menstrual cycle nor do I speak in code. As a woman, that annoys  me  when other women do that.

inhua · Answer

best way to understand women is to observe what they do, not listen to what they say because actions speak louder than words

boobliker · Answer

it has taken me fifty years to work out what want as if you ask it nothing but after you were too slow but the time before it was much too fast and hard. So from about 45 years, I got her to ride cowgirl and I say faster and faster and she likes...

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

Just be cool, funny, confident, have the ability to communicate and keep the conversations positive. Then just sit back and wait.

worldscolide · Answer

you're absolutely not wrong. They expect us to be psychic..

Anonymous · Answer

Women are not complicated, only the lies men have been told about them by society and family make them appear that way. Even the Nursery rhymes tell little boys lies about them...

There are only 2 things that make a woman unhappy.

1) Getting what she wants.

2) Not getting what she wants.

genericname85 · Answer

most people don't even really understand themelf. much less other people in general and even less still in particular people of the other gender.

Unit1 · Answer

Women don't understand themselves. And we don't have to. We just need to love them if we want them. But why listen to me? I am single for many years.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

False. My personal experience with women and people in general are decent people are east to communicate with and understand.

Complicated people are difficult ones to understand or deal with at all.

Their personality tends to be driven by ego and have to be right all the time.

Billlewis · Answer

If you want to understand women, you must first direct your efforts to the goal of pleasing them. If you start with that, and diligently remain focused on that objective with laser like precision, you'll always be successful.

Anonymous · Answer

I can't not agree, the pull of the marketing is too stronk. "What colour the letter 7 smells like?" I love that so much.

Cubus · Answer

It's interesting that men overwhelmgly agree with this statement while women overwhelmgly disagree

gothbxtch · Answer

men who think women aren’t understandable just aren’t listening to us

JesseP1nk · Answer

Like my russian friend said "Women need LOT of love and little bit of understanding"

Emilianorodríguez · Answer

I'm not interested in understanding women, I have more important things to waste time on, that only interests dinosaurs like you.

dolemite58 · Answer

there’s no such thing as understanding women, just learning what is predictable about their behavior.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Its not that hard to understand them. Tou can make sense when you use your smarts and think from their viewpoint.

Kingship · Answer

I disagree 100%.  Spend enough time with women, you will see that men are more complicated in fact women are simple.

Reem12345reem · Answer

i don't understand this whole thing about women is exaggerated , we're not THAT difficult

AlbantheGreat · Answer

Can we really understand another human being? I would say I know, on average, women can be like this or that. But understanding them is another story.

MaxUsefull · Answer

You can’t understand any woman…forget about it

Pohjolan · Answer

Evolutionary mismatch. Women's behaviour makes much more sense if one studies evolutionary psychology a bit. Don't be so sure that you  want  to understand women though.

SusuLove · Answer

I'm a woman and I can agree with this. I have friends who I'll witness ask their man for something and then turn around and get mad at them for the very thing they asked them to do. I do call them out for it. It's annoying and cringe.

DextroShade · Answer

There is nothing more to understand than that they are ruled by their chaotic emotions with some being more chaotic than others.

noohair · Answer

Sorry, 7 is a number. And everyone that approved is also confused because they don't know that numbers and letters are different.

Mamaliv · Answer

I agree but understanding men is just as difficult

marrk · Answer

Everyone is different

Nikki1989 · Answer

Men would understand if they would listen.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Agree... Walking rubics cubes

ScaredIslandGirl · Answer

Depends on the woman. The right would be easy to understand 🤷🏽‍♀️

jimmy2 · Answer

I do not agree women want children, love , safety, more children, security, have her back

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. What's difficult about understanding women. Are you bad with women?

katiesmuff · Answer

I'd agree with that!

exitseven · Answer

I try not to think of it too much.

gorydetails · Answer

And that's the cliffs notes

Christoff92 · Answer

If I red it. Then can tell you. But didn't. Sorry

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