Do you want your SO more dependent or more independent?

[OddBeMe]

Some people enjoy the control over their SOs…

independent

dependent

[Guy13]

My mentality;”it’s not like I can take it with me 💵. 💰. Mine relies on me already which suits my personality. She’ll grab my money clip out of my pocket or drawer when she wants to spoil herself…or hold it hostage for 3-5 days as her schedule allow to shop and tell me and “did you check your pants or apparently one of your gnomes in your little village broke in or I saw it in the sidebars etc or wave it in front of my face, One time-never forget it..”I promise it will be nothing but silver, when I return.. unless there’s not enough and I need to convert to cash.”
And… she has a way to earn her own money.

[Guy13]

Now this women is so Conservative that she can make a Leftist’s asshole lock up from standing beside her…really, really, really Conservative in daylight and public.
—So, we made an agreement early on as she does not work. Commodity exchange contract including a clause. “And it’s yours and none of my BUSINESS what you do with it.” She has never earned less than 1800 month and as much as 4500 with 🎯 5000 Goal. SO, part of the deal is to maintain 100 50s in 1940s leather money bag in her nightstand at all times. And dude.. she counts it…and we go to the bank together monthly…and she’s got her favorite teller…who now says, “same as usual and his account?” and the teller will count it out the bag and grin…”2800.00 short. Is that the right withdrawal amount sir?”
💋…🍆. @ 50.00 now (Fin Biden) a shot which earns me the right to do some occasional non-traditional activities too. I can go on but I will give you the Bitch one…

[Guy13]

I’ve learned that if it goes 6 months without grabbing my money clip that a big purchase is coming. First time I thought she just wanted me to be attentive to her needs (chipping French manicure for instance) and go with her. And that was a huge misdiagnoses…
—I have a hobby and this women will beat the vendors and their estimates down…until I feel bad for them. So that first time, quantity 💋🍆 increased…one month she said “come with”. Found myself in front of a red Miata… She pulled out a piece of paper in front the three of us (car salesman). We agreed to “number” right, which was startling, BUT I know she did beat him down because that’s how she “rolls”.
—So, she had a cashiers check…but it was 6000 short. In front of salesman she looked me-those soft eyes…”will you cover the remainder?…then different look as I’m doing numbers in my head…or I’ll cut you off, yes-no more…. I’ve got 6000 in my account and your money clip.” “Why aren’t you in contract law, enough with this staying home 💩.”
—So, to the bank… her Teller…”Certified check for 6000. too please”- to Teller and her face lit up,”you’re getting the red convertible?” Nodding yes, like of course glare….
Anyway, back to dealer…”pleasure doing Business with you both.”
—It’s not like I can take it with me when I die.

[Juxtapose]

No.. dependancy seems to mean they're unstable and are going to betray me.

[dustybiker]

Independence means stable. Not saying closed off, just more capable.

[TheAfrikan]

I prefer independent girl the most. Since they do as they desire.

[msc545]

Whatever works