Is it weird for me to ask him out?

[Anonymous]

Ok so for some context, there's this guy i like who i have one class with. At the beginning of the year he asked me out but i (regrettably) rejected him because i was seriously questioning my sexuality and thought i was gay. It was pretty awkward and i just ran away after he asked me and now, a couple
months later i really regret it because i actually like him a lot. Is it okay for me to ask him out and apologize? Or is it best to just not say anything?

[nothathrowawayy]

It really depends on how you rejected him and how you think he’ll react to you asking him out after the fact. Also think about how he took the initial rejection. I don’t know this guy personally, but Ik that personally if I was in his shoes, I’d give you a chance.


Also I think it’s really sweet you’re trying to consider his feelings in this decision which I respect a lot.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Well you can apologise for running away as a start. Then see how he responds.. If he likes you he might laugh all that off and want to try again.

[Emanon25]

Yes you can, tell him that you weren’t ready at that time, because actually you weren’t.

[IHateBeingaMan]

girls asking a guy out, why do i get the feeling that will never become normalized

[Avicenna]

Not at all. Go for it.

[888theGreat]

I think he will say no

[slatyb]

No, it's not.