Is it weird or gross that I am 27 & recently attracted to a 19 year old guy? I feel very wrong?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I mean he’s of legal age so technically it’s fine, sure it’s kinda weird because of the age difference but if the both of you are attracted to each other and are consenting to pursue something more then there’s nothing really wrong with it.

[RuthlessAggression]

It's not "wrong" since it's legal but you have to wonder why you'd need to "settle" for someone that young.

My mom, is married a guy, one year and 24 days YOUNGER than him. Which means when she was 16 he was 15, which in my state is illegal

[Asker]

Yeah. My gram was 15 & my pap was 18 when they started dating.

[Anonymous]

I'd say the reverse, when old guys reach for young girls is fucked up. Though 8 years isn't that much.

And you could have been 37 and I'd call it perfectly awesome. I can see myself falling in love with a woman 20 years older than me.

[Whatever2929292]

No there is nothing wrong with that. Nothing at all. You are both adults. I think you should get to know him and see if he would like to meet up for coffee. That is a good first date. Even if you aren't into coffee, coffee shops have more to offer then that.

I think maybe after the first date if he says yes then see how you feel. Alright? That is just my advice.

Don't worry about what judgmental people will think you're both adults just ask the man out

[IJhonnyI]

Bro don't feel any type of way about that you feeling weird about it could ruin something really great I know it did with me and I was doing more then any of these 30 year Olds do nowadays

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

You can’t control who you’re attracted to. It isn’t wrong but just to let you know, you will be judged by society and be seen as a cradle robber

[JSmuve]

If this was the reverse, you girls would be calling the guy a gross pedophile. So... take from that what you will.

[zagor]

No. A very physically attractive person can elicit a reaction regardless of respective ages. Even minors.

[Zolly99999]

Nope not at all. Age is just a number. As long as both people are into it who cares

[BarryLiverstone]

Why does it feel wrong?

[oldermale]

Nothing wrong with that age gap..

[scott04sa22]

It happens

[LimitedBenefits101]

Very gross.