I'm 26 and I like a 19yo. is that normal? I didn't expect I would develop feelings for him, but I did. should I confess or would I just get rejected?

[medstudies]

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26F, 19M by the way

[D_Bone_Steak]

You ever hear of that 1 to 10 scale?

1-5 points is based of the sexual marketplace.

1-5 points is based of the relationship marketplace.

Since he's 19, I'm guessing he doesn't have a $1M car with houses and vacation houses like some of these crazy bitches demand when they bring a sexual marketplace value of zilch because they're fat.

It's a 7 year difference so just be aware of when you hit the wall to a man's wall barrier usually being greater than a woman's. So 40 is the average for you as a female... I'm not going to judge because maybe he values that Grandma pussy, Gilf hunting like a mother fucker... have you considered getting false teeth?

I'm just playing, because I'm sure there are certain things between you two that are evening the playing field. Maybe you're a financial provider and can afford a sugar baby... which most women simply refuse to do even though they should consider it. Normal is usually older man younger woman... but nothing is normal anymore is it? Most new couples don't even consider the idea of kids. I guess this is going to boil down to when he looks like me at 37...

You're going to be what? 44? You might be going through hot flashes and menopause along with stuff like peeing the bed or pissing on yourself in public, while he makes most early 20's girl's panties drop just by walking around with his shirt off.

Maybe he's a fat fuck though and just has a great personality though right? I haven't seen you two... you might be a match made in heaven... I just have my doubts along with a whole lot of information I have to guess is or isn't there. You're currently 26 so you're the one in her prime right now, and probably the best you're ever going to look... That's all gonna end by the time he's 26 sweetheart... that's just a measure of reality.

What I'm trying to say is right now, you and him are enjoying the best 'you' that you're probably ever going to be. You're about to hit the big downhill slope... it's about to be over in a matter 10 years or less. You're done. He's still not going to hit his middle ground until like 10 years from now when he's at his best. I mean other factors like drugs, alcohol (I'm a pure alchoholic and look at me though), smoking (I smoke too)... and to be blunt the only chicks that beat the clock start hitting the gym like a dude does.

Anyways that's my input on your question... too much I don't know to give you an exact or definitive report on your particular situation... I obviously had to generalize way too damn much. I hope it works out for you, and just make educated guesses on the most probable of probable outcomes.

[Summeroflove]

There is nothing wrong for you you’re both adults and I assume you’re attracted to him for more reasons than just his age.

Just express interest and see if he does the same. Maybe if he likes you he’s nervous too don’t wait too long. Feelings can come and go… Last thing you want is for one person to move on while the other still is attached.

Just remember this too…. Rejection is a risk and ir hurts. But you’ll have closure as well as won’t be wasting your time on someone who isn’t even attracted to you.

[Valdemort]

You'll find yourself dealing with some different levels of experience & understanding, for sure, but it happens a lot the other way around. So... as you're both adults, see how things go

[Apple1996]

It's perfectly fine. Men that age would date a 19 year old with no problem so your fine to do it

[Avicenna]

You're both adults, so I say go for it if you like him.

[Zack-Bann]

It’s legal.
Not immoral.
Go for it


You’re as likely to be rejected by a 19 year old as you are by a 30 year old.


So if you’re overlooking the age just make sure he does too and from there it’s a regular relationship

[molonski2]

No , you are far too old for him , he is just a boy , let go of your sexual Cougar feelings , leave him be , and let him find a girlfriend of the correct age , far too old for this young kid.

[medstudies]

my feelings for him are genuine tho, it's not sexual

[molonski2]

You are FAR FAR too old hun , just leave the young boy alone to live his life , you are NOT helping.
It will be sexual..
How would you feel when he is having sex with his 16 yo Girlfriend? Answer.. Not good !

Just leave him be.

[Apple1996]

You are 54... You have no room to be calling anyone old

[molonski2]

@Apple1996
I have plenty of reason hun..
And the question is not remotely about me ( or your opinion on my answer )
I have answered the OP honestly , and she already knows the honest answer , she is a MOTHER figure to this poor young , mother loving boy ( well , who didn't have one )
My circumstance is irrelevant , nor of any remote issue.

[Apple1996]

At 19 he ain't a boy. He's a grown man lol

[Staximus]

You're at two different stages of your life and setting yourself up for disappointment unless you're just in it for the sex. Women who always date younger guys are usually trying to hang on to their youth by their fingernails

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is 10 years older than me.
We both enjoy so much

[medstudies]

what is your age range?

[AnonAndrew]

Yeah, that age difference is fine. :)

[itsannalee]

Age just a number, if you both are adults.

[FunkyMonkee]

You're both legal, go for it!!

[DaBiggestBird]

Sounds good to me. You’re fine

[ehatsham_hussain]

It's not much age difference.

[In_Trance]

Fuck around and find out