Am I wrong to have a boundary about finances in a relationship? What should I do when the boundary is being pushed?

[music_bubbles]

I started talking to this guy and it's been fun and flirty. We have not met in person yet. He brought up the conversation about finances (income, financial goals, cryptocurrency). I told him that it was too soon to be having financial conversations like this, especially since we haven't officially met yet. He continues to ask about it, and he's moved to "wanting to experience the joy in earning money together" (he's talking about cryptocurrency). I said that I wasn't interested in doing that. He keeps bringing it up and saying it's to make my life better (or some crap like that). He doesn't know me, I don't know him. I keep resisting and sticking to my refusal. Honestly I am just getting tired of the same conversation.

Am I wrong to have/keep this boundary about it being too soon for these kinds of financial conversations?

[Whatever2929292]

Well. I think that if he can't respect your boundaries then... Maybe time to let him go. I can't tell you what to do. Try being more firm about it and if he can't listen then maybe it is time to stop. You aren't a gold digger you aren't dating him for his money (hopefully not) so why does he not just drop it?

There are other things to talk about and maybe if he talked about that some of the time but if this is all he even wants to talk about it's like oh my gosh dude.

[Guy13]

He’s not even a good salesman-thief. He sure as hell ain’t a money fund manager. No one does that…RUN to the Hills

[music_bubbles]

How do I know if he's really trying to fool me or actually telling me the truth and just being pushy?

[Guy13]

It doesn’t matter. You want to trust that judgment with anything?-whether your wallet or heart. I’ve had women, who knew I modeled, actually date me.-not always easy with insecure women. Prep me and try to get me to buy them 💩 using my “discount” etc..
—that’s the equivalent of who you’re hanging out with….

[music_bubbles]

I see what you're saying.

[Guy13]

It sucks but at least neither one of us wasted 6 months of our lives 😕😕😕

[music_bubbles]

Very true, so now it's either keep trying with someone else or give up dating all together 😣

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Sounds weird, I didn’t even know my boyfriend’s salary until he told me when we were in a relationship already.

[KelleyNice]

You obviously have issues or else you would already dumped him.

[Lliam]

I think your instincts are absolutely correct, music_bubbles.
Sounds like the guy is trolling for clients.

[music_bubbles]

Do you think he's pushing my boundary because he's only after for me to do the cryptocurrency, so he can rip me off?

[Lliam]

I don't know if he's trying to rip you off or not. But the way he is coming on with it so hard tells me that there is some profit motive.
His sales skills are crappy.

[music_bubbles]

Haha he's not very good at being convincing. I'll keep this in mind.

[WindAtMyBack]

Unless there is more to this than I'm seeing, this sounds like a con. I'd cut this guy off and block him. Don't give him any information whatsoever.

[Fireguy17]

I think he might just be trying to sell you something you have made it clear that you weren't interested in.
Might be time to move on.

[Shamalien]

These bots r everywhere, it’s always azn chicks for me, I’m 99.999999% sure they are fake or scammers if they bring up crypto investing that soon

[music_bubbles]

curious, have any of them talked to you on the phone? this guy called me randomly and would have talked to me longer but I was getting in the car to drive. 🤔

[Shamalien]

One has, but didn’t say much. Phone can be faked these days. Maybe bots, maybe scammers, no difference really

[music_bubbles]

I guess it's just a gamble if the other person is actually a person at all 🙄 This would be why it's so hard to date these days.

[worldscolide]

That is literally none of his business.. Until after marriage..