My question is how do I purposely fail women's tests? ?

[Anonymous]

Or should I just be straight up and tell them how much I find giving tests to anybody extremely unattractive i see it as a game?

[globetrotter22]

I just had this bs pulled on me a few days ago. I had a grown ass woman (not a girl) make up a last second bs excuse to get out of a date.

I acted chill and nonchalant but inwardly I was seething.

It’s not fair and bullshit. However my advice is to follow what successful guys do. These guys are good at “okay well. Well suit yourself and best of luck” approaches. Just either not caring or at least acting like you don’t care.

That response drives women nuts because it shows they don’t have any power. They usually come back to guys who handle them that way.
However it’s easier said than done. Especially if you really liked her and she got your hopes up.

I think women “test men” because they think that “being a challenge” is a turn on for men since that’s what turns them on. But most men don’t like being unnecessarily tested.

[Asker]

That was very well said thank you for helping me

[globetrotter22]

This girl actually circled back and has been messaging me a lot now.

[Birdlegs]

Tests? Why you getting tested?

[Asker]

Girls test every man to see if their right for eachother and they test our confidence and everything else they like to play games

[Birdlegs]

Like what? Any examples of one of these tests?

[Asker]

One of the tests is to figure out how confident we are and another one of the tests is seeing if girls and men are compatible with eachother

[Birdlegs]

But like what is one of the tests?

[LazerBean]

I have no idea what you are talking about

[Asker]

Iam talking about the tests girls give men to find out if he's the right one and other tests

[LazerBean]

What other tests? What do these tests consist of?

[globetrotter22]

@LazerBean it’s very common for women to be unnecessarily difficult with guys to come off as a “challenge”. Women (usually subconsciously) “test” guys by asking certain loaded questions, acting flaky or bitchy, bringing up difficult subjects, etc. They want to see how the man will handle it.

Now if the girl already really likes the guy she will test him much less (if it at all). Her tests will be easy too. But most women aren’t usually head over heels about every guy they go on a date with. They are more on the fence and “testing”. Also since women are themselves attracted to “hard to get” guys then they they will come off as more attractive by acting the same way.

But more often then not it’s over the top and self sabotaging.

[LazerBean]

I don't get it, just stop taking them on dates when they do that if it's a problem.

[globetrotter22]

The tests are usually subtle. Also men are taught (and often brainwashed) to tolerate frustrating behavior from women.

[LazerBean]

It's illogical to say that the tests annoy you but also you they are too subtle to notice. Maybe yout problem is just that you're a whiner.

[globetrotter22]

Read this scenario. Best way to deal with a girl who follows up after flaking out on a first date? ↗

What would you do if this happened to you?

[LazerBean]

I would go about my normal life and just see what happens. Literally one small thing happened once, during allergy season, mind you, and he's already acting like he has something shoved up his ass less than 24 hours later? I wish you would have just told her how he felt so that she could here for herself what a crabby loser he is and leave him alone.

[globetrotter22]

@LazerBean it was nice chatting with you. Have a nice day.

[slatyb]

Just be straight up. Games are for children.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Guy13]

I don’t understand

[Asker]

Do you not understand what iam talking about or you don't know why girls test men?