I did every thing right. I was playful but I didn’t ever mention anything sexual. I got her phone number and after texting a bit she agreed to meet up for an outdoor workout date (we are both like running) at a public venue place. It couldn’t get any more non-threatening than that. I know women get paranoid about meeting guys online so I usually make the first date somewhere they feel safe and comfortable.
Yesterday I texted her into about a spot for us to meet up at the venue. I also wanted to confirm the time. She then gave me a curt one line response I that “she can’t make because she felt sick”. I responded with “damn. Get some rest. I guess I’ll hear back from you when you feel better”. She did a love emoticon on the message. I didn’t say anything else.
I think she is most likely lying. She probably talked herself out of meeting up and/or she found “a better deal.” But it’s really too bad because I don’t come across good prospects very often nowadays. We had a lot in common and she was showing lots of good signals at one point. We texted earlier she said she was going to outrun me. I responded with “want to put a bet on it”. She then said “yeah the loser had to make the first move”. I just laughed saying “well I guess I’ll unexpectedly get lipstick all over me”. She laughed at that. I didn’t say anything else.
Anyway I got a feeling she will message me again later. But when women pull this flaky bs I usually don’t feel motivated to plan something else when they follow up. Maybe she really is sick but my gut is telling me she’s lying.
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