Girl flaked on second date, what to do?

[PntBlnk]

I met this girl a couple of weeks back, we hit it off since then. We exchanged numbers talked and texted for a few days and then agreed to meet for a date. If was amazing, we were into each other and we before she left we made out for a while. Right after she left she even texted me saying how much fun she had and everything.

Whatever so a few days later I ask her out for a movie the following week. She agrees and everything is good, we talked and texted for the rest of the week...

Then the day of the date comes around, and she texts me less than 30 minutes before the agreed time saying she can't make it because she has to go eat dinner with her grandma...

There's a high chance it is a legit excuse, and she's not the type to play games. She didn't offer to reschedule, so I've been kinda giving her some space, not initiating contact. I feel like maybe she saw me as needy and got turned off..

Should I wait for her to get in touch with me? I really hate getting last minute date cancellations, and I know most of the times this means that she isn't really into you, but I feel like the time we did spend one-on-one we hit it off so I don't really want to let go just yet.

Any advice?

[bassman]

Too late...nothing you can do...She's gone...forever. Girls with high interest level NEVER flake. She's a liar...and has no integrity. Contacts you 30 min before to break the date! She will not contact you unless she's bored or hungry. You messed up too. I'm not saying its the reason she flaked...but you should have waited a week to ask for the 2nd date...and you should never take a girl to a movie until she's your gf...NOT the 2nd date! Don't make excuses for her...the high chance is that she's not into you...sorry.

[bassman]

I don't care what she said after the first date. Those are a girls famous last words. She cancelled...without making a counter-offer...very very bad. Do not contact this girl ever.. in any way! Even if she contacts you. She's just a waste of time.

[harleyr0se]

This is common! Maybe she did have a good time but, maybe it wasn't a good enough connection to do it again! I would move on . Ure right she's just not that in to u! This sounds like a gemini! I do this not intentinally but bcus us geminis bore easily one minute were so into you and the next were ignoring your phone calls! Has she text you or made any contact with u?

[PntBlnk]

its been a day since we last had any contact. I don't really believe in the zodiac, but she's an aquarius just like me.

I can totally disconnect myself from any kind of attraction I had for her easily, the last thing I want is to be kept wondering. It will be easier for me to just start moving on to the next, what do you think?

Thanks for your answer btw

[harleyr0se]

No. Problem well one day isn't bad at all ! Don't seem to sweat it or show her any signs of caring too much that's the worse is to show too much emotion. But, I wouldn't disconnect so fast ure more than welcome to browse [ure not committed to her] my advise is to not cntact her let her contact u! And if she doesn't then u'll know what to do

[Anonymous]

Going to the movies is called boring for a second date...that said she isn't into you. Sorry but sad faces for you. Best guage of a womans interest in a man? She would move mountains to be with you anywhere!