Why did he say this?

[Anonymous]

why would anyone take this topic serious.. i told him after 3or4 months in the talking stage if we’re not dating we should just be friends i guess, back then. & he recently told me how he can see himself saying in a year & i was calling him self and such because even if you wanted to try & see with me he should’ve said from the start “i’m not looking for a relationship but i do want to try with you” and see if the other person would feel comfortable or be a bit distant. because a year is a huge thing and this would’ve been our third month taking but still i would’ve kept my distance. he’s told his dad about me, gone on many dates and barely touched his phone it’s odd. but the way he said this first text was odd.

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WAIT everyone’s saying he didn’t mean it like that because he was saying since the third month is starting i shouldn't have tooken it seriously because you never know😂😂😂… i knew it didn’t sound like him ughh LOL now i have to apologize

[Anonymous]

Seems like he was just playing around, he’s telling you to move on and go your separate ways tho. I think he really isn’t ready for a relationship.

[Asker]

that’s what i thought but him explaining it to me a lot in different ways makes since. he would say he was being sarcastic, he didn’t think i would take it serious & sorry, changing his mind before that one text i showed so i feel kind of dumb lol

[Asker]

like he's very straight forward with me and would just tell me he’s not interested instead of just instead going through loops. but i see how you would think that since you don’t know him. goodnight :)

[hihihiok]

He's a jerk babe. Get your shit together don't waste energy.

[Asker]

he didn’t seem like one honestly changed whenever i has a problem which was rare, paid for things, & told his family about me & wanted me to meet them lol etc.

[hihihiok]

I've kinda experienced the same on that basis I said. We always tend to believe in the good part when we love someone. Be rational. Choose yourself.

[Asker]

check update and think what you want lol but thanks for looking out i guess