Why did he say that?

[Anonymous]

This boy I’ve been hooking up with and have only known for a couple days said to me the other day “I hope I become a memory for you.” And I asked him what he meant by that and he just said that he hopes he’s a memorable for me. We were just sitting at the train station in silence when he randomly said that. We both are aware that this is a no strings attached kind of relationship so I’m not sure why he would say something like that.

[Anonymous]

If you are friends with benefits then he probably mean that he hopes your hookups with him are memorable. Like so when you think of the best sex you’ve had, he comes to mind lol. I once had a guy tell me something along the lines of that as well lol I don't know why that seems to be a thing...

[Asker]

Ok honestly makes sense but it’s so weird that he feels the need to say that out loud to me like what did he expect me to say LMAO

[Opinion Owner]

It’s honestly so weird to me lol like not in a bad way, I just feel like it messes up the experience. Like saying he wants to be a great memory makes the situation feel like he doesn’t plan to stick around long😩

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Oh snap. I get you now lol. Maybe he thinks you don't want to stick around for a while. He prob says that hoping you guys value each other more and maybe take it to the next level as you definitely should.

[20yearsolder]

5 years down the road he's hoping that you look back on this time that you two spend together as being memorable, that you had a good time and you remember him fondly

[Asker]

But why though? Like what’s the point of him saying that out loud to me?

[Slayerrrrrrr]

You're overanalyzing it. Just stop and you'll be ight.