Is it lame asking a guy out over text?

[Anonymous]

[Man-O-Metal]

Yes. I find interpersonal relations to be better in every sense. Even if you are dating the person and just asking questions over text. There’s only so many emojis and they only express certain emotions. When face to face, you get real time reactions and emotions. Also true reactions. They could certainly play around over text. But if you read faces and body language you can actually tell if they get excited or uncomfortable.

[Part2603]

Possibly. What's the context? If it's someone you just met and there's hardly any attachment then go ahead. If it's a coworker, or a friend and it's a bit of a revelation that you having feelings, then it might be best to be in the moment when you "ask him out".

Keep in mind, most people don't "ask each other out" or go on "dates" anymore; The old rituals are all but dead.

[boldlyblu]

I believe texting is a terrible way to do anything and asking someone out should be done face to face.

[ChooChooHaha]

YES.
Have guts, ask him in person. And he'll like you more for it.

[Ευδεμονια]

I think it would not be lame, it’s normal if you haven’t seen each other and your relationship is by text.

[FilmGuy93]

Yes, but the expectation of women asking dudes out is way lower than a dude asking a woman out. You can ask men out by text, simply because he'll be flattered that you are asking him out at all.

[ohshee]

Not even you won't think that when he says okay where do you want to go

[maximumpower]

why text? so he doesn't see you cry when he replies "no."
if you're going to play the equality card, at least step to the plate like the guys do.
really - how would YOU feel if on the receiving end?

[ImJustSomeGuyLol]

Absolutely not, it's common to ask people out over text. Don't stress 😂

[exitseven]

It depends on how well you know him. Msybe for a casual drink of something it would be okay.

[Dontaaaa]

No, asking someone out no matter the way is a good thing.

[Anonymous]

It's not lame but in person is much personal and cute either way is cute

[Creampiekarl420]

No don’t ruin your 30 year cool streak 😑 hi 👋 sarcasm 🙄

[Jamie05rhs]

No, it's not lame.
Coming from the perspective of a dude, I would find that very exciting.

[whiskeyontherocks]

Would you think it was lame that a guy asked you out by text?

[fred_durst]

i dont think so , a lot people asking someone out over text

[IsoUser]

To be perfectly honest you're just being a normal Jagoff!

[ElvenMr]

Not lame in my opinion. I would be happy. If i like you this doesn't matter.

[serious]

No it is not. Not at all.

[OlderAndWiser]

Lame to the max!

[Freyke]

No but I prefer a call or in person.

[Anonymous]

Texting is lame anyway.

[jahaims]

Depends how well you know him

[moonpie89]

Not really. I'd do it.

[JohnK123]

Ya I would do it in person

[Fuentes]

No lol

[jasco]

i dont think so

[BarryLiverstone]

Not the best way

[Anonymous]

Never ask a guy out.

[Xwell]

Nope, not at all

[Anonymous]

no..