I liked younger guys all my teen years and never felt morally wrong for liking someone 2 years younger than me.
I felt morally wrong once, I was in my last year, was 17 and my teacher assigned a 3.5 years younger boy to me who I helped with studies and he was a tall basketball player, and was really handsome and looked like he was 16.
Even though he just turned 14. I felt morally wrong for liking him. But I think it’s only natural to like someone who’s handsome as long as you don’t act on it if they are underage.
It’s not the case for you, both of you are younger than 18 and the age difference of 2 years is just too small of an age gap.
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Be his friend. There's nothing wrong with that. Just understand he has a lot of adolescence in front of him, so there's no way you can determine what he'll be like when adolescence is resolved for him. You've crossed paths on your own individual journeys. No one can tell if you are on the same path or different paths, so don't make it something it isn't or invest more than you're willing to lose. Don't rush anything or get ahead of yourself. Slow down and enjoy the reality of the moment, but don't lose sight of how your choices now might impact your futures.
It's morally okay for anyone to like anyone; it's actions that are moral or immoral, not desires.
Dating might raise an eyebrow or two, but a two year difference is NOTHING once you get out into the real world (look, youth has its perks, but right now, I could go buy a watermelon, hollow it out, and wear the shell as a helmet until it rotted off my head, and NO ONE COULD STOP ME; being a grown-up RULES), and you're not required to do anything sexual anyway.
I wouldn't worry too much about it.
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Sounds like a friend rather than boyfriend? I get that too because I will listen and I’m the straight guy opinion 🤷🏻♂️. I don’t know…you know more than I. It seems kind of sweet to me🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
meh the thing isi would like to say no because i find it weird if guys go for younger girls but the thing is im 16 and im only attracted for girls that are at least 18 so for them it would be the same exept the meaturing happening from 14 to 16 is bigger than from 16 to 18 but depends on what kind of 14yo he is and what kind of 16yo u are
Two years is nothing much of a difference when you are in your 20s or 30s. But I don't know how that feels when you are 16. I never wanted to date a two years old girl when I was 14. it's all about how you want to feel. Nothing else isn't that matters.
If you want him, then go for it. Don't let anyone tell you out of it.
Yeah, that's totally fine. You're both teenagers and only two years apart. Where's the harm?
He sounds like a good friend. But do you all hang out and do things together or just talk online?
Lol @ morally. You're both tadpoles. Stop worrying, you're probably going to lose interest in a few weeks anyhow.
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