I've already literally done the math on this. For get soulmate or just sticking to GirlsAskGuys, let's just talk about "any woman who would be madly in love with me." The odds of me finding a compatible woman who loves me one hundred percent, as I am for me, who I also love are quite literally 0.000000933333%. That's my chances of finding love.
Taking into account every currently living female on planet Earth and filtering out things like being under 18, being over 40, being queer, being currently married, living in a country where I'd never get to meet them, being unable to speak English, being into politics I wouldn't agree with, and so on.
That number, by the way, leaves about 32 women throughout ALL of human history, that would be compatible with me and would like me as I am. I already met the one of the 20th/21st century, and well, she died on me. The odds of a second one existing in this dark period of history are astronomically low. Though my nearest compatible partner might have existed in 1847 China.
Yeah, that's how things are when you're a f*cking dwarf and ain't even rich like Tom Cruise or Kevin Hart. That is why 6'1" @Ms_Facesitter wouldn't be with me. 😭
Also, here we have @thespacegnome thinking no one would bother writing out Googleplex. I'm sure the chances of sleeping with Nancy Pelosi are WAY higher than that! Maybe 3%, I'd reckon.
As for you, @Daniela1982. You and 888great should just get married already and not-abort some kids. Everyone on GAG (who hasn't blocked you) knows he's your soulmate, with all that lame "Jim and Pam, Will They or Won't They?" bickering going on.
Is this supposed to be a love confession? A dwarf? How bad is it? And since you're not rich, what is your profession? I'm just a secretary, I babysit on the side. I'm not exactly Ms_Alpha.
@Ms_Facesitter 180 cm. Or one female Dutch teenager. 😔 I'm an ESL teacher in South Korea. I make $36,000 a year (in Korean won). Or, one female Dutch OnlyFans star. 🚫💵
@Ms_Facesitter It's exaggerating a little, but yeah, that's too short. For an adult male, at least. For a child or woman, it's fine. Usually I'd just go with the more accurate term, "manlet."
@mcheetah if what Daniela is saying is true... You've got a serious problem, cause to any other guy who is 180 cm I am positive that wouldn't make them feel short, like At All.
@Ms_Facesitter Aren't you 184 cm? And from The Netherlands? Do native adult men my height even exist over there? If they do, are they carried around in a little bird cage like Gulliver when he went to Brobdingnag in the novel?
I don't like being the size of a little girl or a 90 year old Chinese man. But that's my curse to bear.
The problem isn't about my height. The problem is you seeing being 180 as being dwarf height. That's no a healthy or sane thing to believe. I'm sorry for pointing it out, but the curse is actually in your head.
@Ms_Facesitter So me hating being short in an era where almost no woman would give short men the time of day is "unhealthy or insane" to you? You *do* realize women in general don't want men who are too short. You even commented on it before here on GAG.
No seeing 180 cm as being short is what I am trying to get at. It's ludicrous to me. I'll send you a nude if you can link where I said that 180 cm is dwarf height.
I'm honestly still in shock. What Daniela is saying is being confirmed before my very eyes and I'm genuinely shocked. You're older than me, I'm still haven't ditched the thought that you're possibly trolling me, but the longer it goes the more I'm starting to think you actually believe what you say.
@Ms_Facesitter You didn't say " 180 cm is dwarf height." You talked about height on men on a question a few weeks ago. I can't find it, but it was a similar question to these.
And how is it "ludicrous" to hate not being tall, when you're way taller than that. And all men in The Netherlands are way taller than that. And most men I've ever met in the US are taller than that.
The brief version is, I'd have a tall, kind-hearted woman if I wasn't too short for all of them. Like I said. I'd definitely be married by now (not that marriage is worth it anymore). No woman wants to date a man she sees as small, weak, inferior, etc. Or worse yet, being called useless as a human being ("average"), which is even more insulting than just being called genetically inferior.
But Daniela is right in that I can't fix the issue or solve the problem. I really need to learn to stop talking about it as much and just become a stoic. A lonely, forever-alone, manlet-ass, girl-sized stoic.
Body dysmorphic disorder, that might explain things. Your version is you'd have a woman you love if you weren't too short. But the actual version me, Daniela and no doubt many others see is 180 is not short and that you actually aren't part of that short guy struggle that actual short guys seem to go through. It's the disorder, not the actual body that is the problem.
@Ms_Facesitter That's like guys thinking that 6.5 inches is short, even though it is the average length of a dick. Yet they are always asking if their dicks are big enough. Cheetah is the same. He is always asking if 5/11 is tall enough. I mean even if every woman on G@G said yes, it is tall enough, he would still think he was Vern Troyer. Here is Cheetah with his new Tesla. https://youtu.be/6K_nTNvyTtE
@Ms_Facesitter You don't get it. And from as high up as you are, I don't expect you to. It's like Jeff Bezos trying to complain about poor people staying poor and just chalking it up to "laziness." I guess, it was my fault for thinking you can understand. I mean, it's not like I'm the ONLY one who has been rejected by dozens of women for my height or thought of to be an easy target to rob because of it, but sure, keep thinking that.
Do you seriously see me as tall? It makes no sense.
@Daniela1982 Like I said before, I don't want to be compared to dogshit and worthlessness. I bet you nor any other woman out there would want a disposable, valueless generic male to be your partner, would you? Implying someone is worthless, whether it be human worth or penis size, if NOT a compliment. If anything, it's telling them you think of them as valueless. So yeah, people don't want a worthless anything in a person, whether it be penis or the entire man himself.
I am sure that you are not the only one who's been rejected for that height. But I am also sure that the majority disagrees with 180 cm being short. To me, that makes no sense.
No hard feelings. Just got to make sure I am not misunderstood here. And I've seen you here regularly so I am more then willing to hear you out on this.
It seems unlikely unless you're willing to take some chances. Strike up private conversations with the expectation that most won't be sole-mate quality. I can see the attraction, tho. You can get a fairly unfiltered view into a person's personality. What they like, etc. How do you weed out the fakes, tho. A couple of the "women" who've messaged me are probably not what they claim.
My brother met a girl here. They spent four years together. He loved her and was devastated when it went wrong. He is only on GAG occasionally. Shame. He's a great guy, even though I say it myself.
So, yes. It is possible. I know of two other people that met here. I remember her as Paris. I forget her partner's name now.
Just because I am serious doesn't mean people cannot talk to me at all. A person can be serious, straightforward, honest and yet talk properly and understand people.
That is what I do well. That is why even here on the site my PM is open to all. Anyone can PM me anytime if they want too.
"Yet women like men that can make them laugh on dating sites. You might consider having a funny side too."
Yes I know that very well. I have observed and I have seen that in plenty of movies, TV series also. However, no I am who I am and I will always be the way I am. Irrespective of the consequences.
If people don't like me then so be it. If they don't want to talk to me then its fine. They can mind their own business.
None of this matters to me. I never cared about that and neither will I ever care about it.
"Wow, you haven't asked a question in here for over a year"
Yes you got that right. It's been more than a year since I asked a question. I rarely ever ask any questions here.
If you saw my profile you will notice that those are conceptual type either deep thinking one or basic ones. I have never asked any advice seeking or help seeking questions because I don't need any help. My life is almost always great. Never had any issues.
On GAG. I love to read different question on different topics and then give my opinions.
" You figure once you get to Master and you can't go any higher, that it is pointless?"
No, I think you can go higher. I am not what is the name of the level though. However, then the number of points you need to score to get there is also higher. If I am not wrong, you can reach Xper level Master at 50,000 points and to reach the next level you will need another 50,000 points. Yes that can take a lot of time.
It is also true that after I reached 25,000 points I was not that active on the site. I mean I still come almost everyday.
It has been 7 years for me on GAG. I totally love it here. I have met a lot of people who are genuinely nice, kind caring and sweet and I am happy that I could get to interact with them
That being said, this site is not boring at all. At least to me. I still like to read different questions and give my opinions and of course talk to some really nice people on PM.
Seriously? lol There's NO chance! Not only is this not a dating site, but I get no luck on actual dating sites, nor have I ever even met anyone from this site, so the chances of even meeting someone (never mind "soul mate", which is another thing entirely), is nothing. 0.000000000000000000000000001% LOL
Ohhhhhhhh nooooooooooo, here not at all, not even on the scale I'd rather stop breathing then get a female from here, no offense too all the LOYAL AND TRUST WORTHY women on here, but that's besides the point, no plain and simple no
Pretty much impossible. I'm as guarded about personally identifiable stuff on here as I can, so the "get to know you personally" stuff doesn't fly. Hard to fall in love when you don't know anything but confessions and perversions.
I found someone from the Netherlands, and I don't know how many people are here so that would be one of hundreds upon hundreds of people. Pretty slim.
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No such thing as a soul mate for one. But since no one is truly who they pretend to be. No one claims to be looking on here (especially the women 🤣). And virtually everyone emotionally and possibly mentally on here is damaged beyond repair. I would say slim to none.
I think that anything is possible. I doubt even if she used this website... That I would meet her on this site. I don't meet people online really though I am happy to talk to people on here
A one in 10 year chance by my own experience. I met her, i love her immensely and we are together. But i only met her after i had been on the site off and on for close to that long.
Bad because I probably will never be able to show myself the way I am on an anonymous forum. I just don´t feel like GaG being the place to find someone like that.
I don't believe in soul mates. We find someone that we like, are compatible with, and settle down with them in a relationship. Depending on when we meet, that could be any of hundreds of others.
There is every possibility you can meet your soul mate her , but will they mate with you is the real question for life lol not all souls have the luxury to meet their mates and mate 😎
You could. It’s just low odds. Although, you could judge someone’s character based on their personal opinions on here that might take months to find out in real life.
definitely bad because if ya dont understand the datin game currently as it is it's about sex online even more so your not likely to find relationship material online
I do not believe in soul mates. What are my chances of a hook up? Well, if you are willing, within 100 miles of me and over 21 I would say better than average.
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