How should I ask this, and do you think it’s OK to suggest to this woman that we could just hang out either here or at her place?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been on a six dates, and we’ve known each other for a few months. But still haven’t even kissed yet because Apparently wants to go very slowly. We did hold hands last time at least though. Anyway the weathers gonna be horrible tomorrow. And I don’t know if it’s too soon for me to try that? But yeah

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Ask, but have a back up plan. If you've mostly been doing active things or things where you're not spending "together alone" time, it might be a perfect time for that.

If you both enjoy coffee and books, try to find a small local cafe and bookshop. Buy some books and coffee and spend time just lounging together.

If you do ask to spend time at either house, be conscious of her boundaries and make sure you don't pressure her - it may make her disengage from you and set you back.

Make sure you have a plan for what you'd do at the house - watch a show you've been talking about, do some activities together (colouring books can be fun, or play some games together). This way you can demonstrate you can have fun that isn't just bedroom fun.

And prepare for the suggestion to be rejected. Hopefully she says yes, but it'll be good to practice mentally how you'll react if she says no. Being gracious in rejection can help show you're not about to try to force her to go at a different pace.

This is all assuming you don't mind going at this pace. If you do, best have an honest talk as soon as you can to avoid wasting time or breeding resentment unknowingly.

[Spotifyplaylist]

If you kiss better make it a good one. Also yes you can ask her to hang at home to have like a movie night or something.

[Jamie05rhs]

Just go for it. As long as you're not having sex I don't see what the big deal is.

[Guy13]

Kiss her already…