If you and a girl are coworkers and you talk at work and off the clock, is it natural to ask her to hang out?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Do you like your job
Does she like her job

Do you have lunch at the same time.

Do you have breaks at the same time.

If the answer was

Yes
Yes
Yes
Yes
And you want to keep it that way
The last thing in the world you want anyone to know is that you like each other

Then the last thing you want any one to know is if you start dating. Because if you do.

The first thing your higher ups are going to do is pay attention to everything you do you both do. If there is any drama whatsoever , one of you are going to have to leave they do this by firing one of you

In a perfect world. Little chit chat here and there you would think it would be OK.
But in a perfect world , you would be the boss and I wouldn't matter , but it does matter

You come to work, you work your 8 hours, you get paid your 8 hours. Good wages for a good day

But if they're slack or if there is drama. That means there are rumors that means everybody knows the rumors. And that means less people are doing what they're supposed to be doing.

I'm just gonna say if you both liked your job business. The smart one you get off work. That's your time, but when you're at work. That's your company's time that they're paying you for

[In_Trance]

Don't try to fuck your coworkers.
It doesn't work out the way you think it will

[Asker]

Even at a low paying retail job?

[Screenwriter]

Sounds rational to me. She'll say no if she's not interested and you'll have your long-term answer.

[Abbycado]

No, because you don’t fraternize with coworkers.

[Asker]

What is the problem with that?

[Abbycado]

Are you paid to be there?

[Asker]

Of course. We talk to each other, why can't I ask her to hang out?

[Abbycado]

Because you’re paid to do a job, not socialize. No matter on or off the clock.

[Nikki1989]

[Anonymous]

Depends on the girl.