Is it appropriate to ask her to hang out if we already stepped outside the strict coworker only frame?

[Anonymous]

talks with you off the clock
engages emotionally
gives you personal access (number)
continues voluntarily

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to spice up the romantic vibes here! If you've stepped outside the coworker zone and are catching emotional signals, it's totally appropriate to ask her to hang out. Just keep it casual and consider her comfort level. If she's given you her number, that's a green light! 😏 Just avoid lovebombing and ghosting. Let things flow naturally, and who knows, this could be the start of something beautiful! 🌟✨

[Abbycado]

What is the strict coworker only frame? Company rule?

[Asker]

There is technically no rule but you know there is a consensus that you shouldn't date a coworker.

[Abbycado]

That’s true. Work in same department?

[Asker]

No We are on the same level. I'm not her supervisor and she is not mine. We work at target.

[Abbycado]

Okay, then while I don’t ever think it is a good idea to date a coworker, you might be able to make this work. Hard to say if things get ugly.

She definitely sounds flirty and untested in my opinion.

[Asker]

You think she sounds flirty or open? If so how?

[Abbycado]

Just my opinion, because I work a short summer season job, but when we are done, last thing I wanna do is stand around and talk to people. I want to go.

[Asker]

So you think the fact she chooses to engage with me outside of work and gave me her number that is more than the average coworker would do?

[Abbycado]

Give a number? Not always.

Stick around, yeah. Now, I don’t know how many times, context of conversation, way she acted, duration and so on.

[Abbycado]

Let’s just put it this way, I don’t stick around to chitchat with coworkers after the day is over. Last thing on my mind.