Be honest, do you take Rejection well?

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LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I have never been rejected, that’s not because I am the best.

It’s just because I never had to approach men, it was mostly them approaching and plus, I never catch feelings for people, unless I see they already have feelings for me. What makes me fall in love is seeing how deeply someone loves me. That’s the biggest turn on for me. That’s how I fell for my boyfriend and I love him more than anything.

So, It’s impossible for me to be interested if I see the other party - is not. That’s the recipe for never feeling rejected.

I always liked to think that I have many, many good qualities and if a man is looking for something else, then he’s not my type and can enjoy billions of other women, who are not like me. Plenty of girls out there.

As for the main man and the biggest love in my life, my boyfriend, he’s seen my best, my worst, has been away from me for 2 years (we have to be LDR) and still hasn’t found anyone to replace me and still waits for me to go back to him. That’s more than enough for me to feel happy.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

yeah, as long as it is not wrapped in some bullshit leaving hope.. like someone saying: 'I don't want you 'right now'', or 'I am not ready for a relationship 'right now''(while they continue on dating a bit later). Or not giving a straight rejection, for example keep postponing seeing each other. If someone say they are not interested in me, then I accept it and start moving on.. I do try that when it is a half assed rejection but I might leave them some passive aggressive messages or so xp, trying to get a straight answer from them in some way.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

no idea... I have never been rejected

but my guess is that I'd take it well

I just never ask people out, or never ask them to be with me in a relationship

I always let things happen gradually, and if they happen well great... and if they don't then they were just not meant to be, that's all there is to it, lol

Turtlewax1994 · Accepted Answer

I do know that I’m older but back then man I sucked at taking it lol Mine please?

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I'm level headed for the most part. I mean you can't be liked by everyone. Sometimes people hate you JUST for being liked.. Rejection from them means nothing to me..

Rejection from someone who means a lot to me isn't so easy.. It's just I will never let them see it.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

No, I don’t. Because I’m basically insecure and shy, I think usually that I have done something wrong. Rejections made me feel very demotivated for another try, nowadays I gave up on dating because of that.

007kingifrit · Answer

once a girl i thought about and hadn't seen in 50 years didn't spontaneously knock on my door at that exact moment and I... well... do you remember the "virus" that plagued the world this past year? yea that was me

remember when a volcano erupted on an island off the coast of france this past year? that was me

remember when betty white died months before her 100th birthday? yea, you guessed it.

Whatever2929292 · Answer

No I don't but I would never kill anyone. LOL. I mean... you aren't entitled to someone else. Most people have both been rejected and have rejected people before

EllaNella · Answer

yes. i'm sad for a while, maybe i cry, i stay at home for a while if it's really bad and then i deal with it and move on. there's nothing to gain from taking rejection badly.

Jadethedream · Answer

No I struggle with rejection. Just want to rub and hide when I get left out or rejected in events or somthing fun with family or friends even my partner somtimes. Not intentionally. But it can

serious · Answer

Yes of course. I don't waste my time in thinking about that. I have useful things to do in life also.

AviatorTom · Answer

I have no control over someone rejecting me. It's their choice and I respect that. I feel sad for a few days, then move on.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

I believe so, I have even had people start messaging me and then stop out of nowhere, I don't take it to heart, it just happens I guess

Sour-rose · Answer

If I said yes, i be lyin'. If I get rejected welll... I'm sour rose for a reason.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I can say with confidence that I do take it well. My day will be ruined and my disappointment will be immeasurable, but I won't show you that.

exitseven · Answer

I used to joke about how I was good with rejection because I had a lot of practice but it really never got any easier.

Blackcosmo · Answer

No I take it really bad. I feel worthless and keep beating myself over it.

MCheetah · Answer

Yes. Doesn't mean rejection still doesn't suck and feels bad, though.

SeekingVirginWife · Answer

I keep a collection of Rekt Videos of women who tried to divorce their husbands. Just saying.

dtweed1996 · Answer

I take rejection well I mean it doesn’t burn me I just accept it and move on

dolemite89 · Answer

ya I've gotten better at taking it over the years, there’s a lot of fish in the sea no sense in getting caught up on just one girl

Anonymous · Answer

You can't be rejected if never seeks anyone's approval.  I mean you can try to reject me but I'm just going to laugh at you.

msc545 · Answer

Not really but it happens so much you get used to it.

Gangactivities911 · Answer

Rejected by my crush or rejected by a girl I just want to fuck there’s a big difference

Cobby_Gh · Answer

In fact no. Coz if rejection, it very difficult for me to approach a lady😥

LimboOfTheDink · Answer

Yeah. Criticism is harder.

kinggeorge007 · Answer

Yes I do. What I don't take well is betrayal.

lofii · Answer

I don't when I'm lead on

RuthlessAggression · Answer

trump doesn't

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