I keep on getting the ick with my boyfriend?

[Kitty-Chan]

Every time he sends me voice messages i cringe so hard and want to end it alll. I genuinely love him and want to be with him but sometimes its so hard when i can't even stand him speaking. Im sure im not better at it xd but still. I have no idea what i should do. Is this thing even normal? Do i have any hope?

[SeekingVirginWife]

Be glad that he is not a Racist, Sexist Holocuast Denier and Anti-Vaxxer. Then you should be grateful for what you have.

[Kitty-Chan]

I am extremely grateful for what i have dont worry :D

[RobEurope]

Se'd him to speech therapy.

[RobEurope]

Wow thanks for the most helpful!

[VikingWarLord]

He's too beta, you need a hot, alpha bad boy type like me. I already know your type.

The goodie nice guy betas who kiss your Azz with lame compliments and voicemails HEY BABY I WUV YOU SO MUCH KISS KISS, etc.. it just doesn't keep you turned on.

You might as well drop him now and save both of you from wasting your time.

[Vendela]

LMFAO you're so dumb

[VikingWarLord]

@Vendela I guarantee that's what is making her cringe.
These betas don't realize that acting like a wuss isn't what she wants.
STOP THE SIMPING

[Sonorous]

Could be because you don't view him as being masculine enough.

[lofii]

Just looking at your profile pic, I can tell there's something mentally wrong with you.

It's not him, it's you

[Kitty-Chan]

Stalker

[lofii]

You're not as important as you think you are

[Jouth]

I don't know bro.

I have all sorts of things that bug me with female friends.

And I'm fine being friends with them but holy fuck I could never date that.

[crmoore]

I don't think that's normal. What about it makes you cringe?

[Wise4myage]

If things don't change, than you need to think about moving on.

[SlothySlob]

How much time do you spend with him?

[Kitty-Chan]

Like 50% of the day at least

[SlothySlob]

Maybe that is the problem.
Ok, now about what you actually like. When it comes male voice, which do you like the most?

[Kitty-Chan]

Mm im personally very shy so what i look for is for the other person to be super good with talking in general. I can get over the half moaning deep voice as long as i won't cringe for the way they words. Sadly i get the ick for both. I ain't any better at talking so I don't know if its even my place to get an ick

[SlothySlob]

Does the feeling arrive when he says specific things? Or when he acts in a specific way?

[Kitty-Chan]

I feel like it comes every time he’s a bit awkward. Makes me feel like ill struggle a lot once we meet. Other than that tho my friends have said he's super cringe too so i might be overthinking things

[SlothySlob]

I'm guessing he's really into "meme" culture, gets absorbed by it and has adopted certain words or phrases. I'd say you're maturing faster than him and he's yet to notice what he's doing. What you do with him is up to you, I'm not telling him to drop that cringelord. I wish the best for the two of you.

[FilmGuy93]

What about the messages gives you the ick?

[RuthlessAggression]

Well, you are 19, the immaturity shows

[Kitty-Chan]

I wouldn’t say it’s immaturity but rather hmm inexperience yes. Im not really sure what to think when i feel like it and it is my first relationship. But thanks for that spectacular answer! =D

[RuthlessAggression]

No prob.

[PatriceONeal]

If it's cringe then you should mention it to him.

[Fuentes]

Dump him or hopefully he dumps you

[avery_111]

Dump him girl, do it.

[Kitty-Chan]

Im not sure thats the move xd Its not like he’s doing anything wrong

[avery_111]

It doesn't have to be his fault. It's just it's not working for you. You can also try to make it work tho