What should I do if the guy I love is in jail for having marijuna at his home?

[Anonymous]

I feel anxiett i love him and i miss him. He’s being jailed while the police is looking for more information. I dont know if if he will get a jail sentence, or how long that would be, and i miss him like crazy.

[Slim57]

Well that depends, for one how did the police know to check his home? What is he doing with that much in his home? Is he selling it? If he is that's just asking for trouble, and you can expect him to keep getting in trouble if he continues with it, if he's just a smoker still, how did the police get tipped off to go and raid his home? Bottom line if it's not legal where you're at then it's a risk and you have to decide if you wanna take the risk of him being in trouble with it or have a talk with him and tell him it's you or the marijuana if you don't like it

[Sparkie460]

If it's illegal where you live then he broke the law and has to pay the price.

[LazerBean]

Leave him, he's a loser.

[Asker]

Whyy :(( he is a mma fighter and i think he smoke it to get calm or something

[LazerBean]

If he needs help getting calm them that makes him even more of a loser. There is no future for guys like that.

[Subarugirl]

well that's a little judgmental don't you think... using marijuana doesn't automatically make you a loser...

[LazerBean]

Successful dating requires good judgement. Being a jailed weed smoker does, in fact, automatically make you a loser.

[Subarugirl]

but using marijuana doesn't automatically make you a loser...

[LazerBean]

Where did I say it did? Please give me the exact quote.

[Subarugirl]

"he's a loser. " all I said is just because someone smokes weed doesn't automatically make them a loser.

[LazerBean]

He is a weed smoker and in jail. What makes you assume that I'm an saying that ONLY because smokes weed?

[loveslongnails]

Smoking weed makes you a loser, huh? Not as much as jumping to conclusions does.

[LazerBean]

Jumping to conclusions? You mean like concluding that I called him a loser for smoking weed when he is also in jail? By your own admission, that makes you a loser AND a hypocrite.

[loveslongnails]

You know nothing about why he's in jail. In some states, or countries, you can have as little as two ounces of weed and be considered a dealer, which is total bullshit. Or he could have been set up by one of his opponents. Or any number of things which you have no knowledge of. That's like saying "If you were arrested, you must be a criminal and you must be guilty". So, not only are you jumping to conclusions, you're displaying your own ignorance in grandiose fashion. Congratulations, you've earned it.

[LazerBean]

"Maybe he broke some laws, but those laws were probably stupid anyway." Yeah definitely great line of thinking of you like wasting time waiting around for red flags.

[Asker]

He’s arrested because he has weed and cocaine at his home in pacages, the ”normal amount” i think he maybe also sell it

[Asker]

And im scared he will sit in jail for that, i miss him already and i have anxiety. I love him si i forgive him. But i think he also sell it not only use it, weed and cocaine

[loveslongnails]

Lazer, you ignorant slut. Scroll up and look at your initial comment; " Leave him, he's a loser". Then you go on to say: "If he needs help getting calm them that makes him even more of a loser."
Well aren't you the perfect person! Quite an accomplishment at 22.

Be a fucking man and own up to your shit. You opened your mouth and you didn't know crap about the situation, yet you spewed your "wisdom" all over the asker, and my wise friend Subarugirl, who patiently tried to point out the flaw in your so-called argument. You asked for your exact quote - scroll up and read it. Yes, you're entitled to your opinion. And that's all it is.

[LazerBean]

Slut? Lmao I waited for marriage, did you? If not then that would make you the slut. If you're upset that some people have standards that mentally ill persons cannot reach, just say so.

[Subarugirl]

Did he break a law?

[Asker]

Yess

[Subarugirl]

Okay so let me get this straight... he got arrested for possessing weed and cocaine and it is safe to assume that he was selling it? Did I get that right?

[Asker]

Yes, he had weed and cocaine in pacages thats why we assume he sell it.

[Subarugirl]

So you were dating a drug dealer?… I hope he gets jail time, and gets some counseling. That’s honestly pretty shitty. You could do better. I hope you weren’t an accomplice